"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i'm a senior in high school and i'm pretty cool within my tightly-knit friend circle. i'm kind of a dj and my friends know it. there's this girl who i think likes me, and i want to ask her out.

however: i've been pretty antisocial all my life until the end of my junior year and i've never been on a date; i just don't know what to do. i just don't have the experience. how do i ask her out? what am i supposed to say to her? and when? also, she's in the friend circle, so i've already built some pretty good rapport.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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djhero1234 said:
i'm a senior in high school and i'm pretty cool within my tightly-knit friend circle. i'm kind of a dj and my friends know it. there's this girl who i think likes me, and i want to ask her out.

however: i've been pretty antisocial all my life until the end of my junior year and i've never been on a date; i just don't know what to do. i just don't have the experience. how do i ask her out? what am i supposed to say to her? and when? also, she's in the friend circle, so i've already built some pretty good rapport.
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Ask her what she's doing this weekend, find a day where the both of you are free and ask her to hang out. Or tell her this new movie just came out and you guys should check it out. It doesn't really matter the way you ask...
 
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Ill giv u the best advice bro. You first need to start teasing her, the biggest fallacy most noobs have is that they dont show intent right off the bat. Make fun of her when she does somthing wrong, and acuse her of lookin at ur ass or somthin. You catch my drift.
Later on, after ur comfortable with teasing and touching her, ask her if she wants to get a drink or somthin, or go to a hookah place. Its easy bro just dont show your intent directly. Tell me how it goes n GL.

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