"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I decided to join from the inspiration of lust aka rebel, and hes a really smart guy, theres a chick im going after but shes playing hard to get, what do i do, like msn convos she hardly says nefin, phone convos its hard to keep it going, give me advice master of s*x
O yeah plan b, if things dont work out.
I live in an apartment block and wouldnt mind having a girl friend who i can just meet up wif instantaneously and do somthing wif her, ive seen a few girls there(while walking to and from school) but dont know how to aproach them, whats the best thing,
edit 2nd time, and what do these terms mean life AFC etc is there a list of them
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You have to learn to not give into her games. You should be the one playing hard to get, not the other way around. Remember that YOU are the prize and she needs to please you. Check out other women while she's around, ignore her flirts. In essence, do what some may consider "all the wrong things". Plan B should come naturally with this philosophy, she rejects you, you move on to another. You need to play the field, not just one position on the team. And I'd suggest talking with her in person, not on the computer and phone.
 

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SenorSuave said:
You have to learn to not give into her games. You should be the one playing hard to get, not the other way around. Remember that YOU are the prize and she needs to please you. Check out other women while she's around, ignore her flirts. In essence, do what some may consider "all the wrong things". Plan B should come naturally with this philosophy, she rejects you, you move on to another. You need to play the field, not just one position on the team. And I'd suggest talking with her in person, not on the computer and phone.
I think im moving on with this one. What do u mean by play more positions on the field, o and i do talk to her in person, all the time, we always go to places and stuff... lol?, but my main strive now is how to aproach a girl? whilst walking home from school, ill give u the scenario, id be walking just inside my complex and it was another 200m walk to my unit. While im walking straight and about to turn left into the complex i see a girl, shes behind and in front, i walk to my unit and then get inside. What im wearing and appearance: listening to mp4, with bigass bose headphones over my ears, i am all untidy cause im walking home from school so i dont bother with tucking in my shirt etc, I am carrying a satchel, i am almost 6 foot, slightly big muscles ( think its from all the wanking), slight pack, and yeah thats about it.
Advice please, i want lots of it
 

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O and i dont understand all these terms like AFC and fluff, can u tell me what some of them mean. cause i like reading peoples dealings but dont understand some of the words, this is a sick site btw
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm pretty much lost when it comes to terms as well. What I mean by play the field is you shouldn't focus on just one woman, rather should see them all as possibilities (the good looking ones that is ;) ). As for your situation, just pass by and give her a simple "Hey watsup" or something along those lines. Of course, it varies by scenario. If a girl is sitting with her friends, approach her with confidence in yourself, initiate kino, and introduce yourself.
 

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Read the bible, then ask if you have questions about particular things.
 
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