"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NewMan

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Man I don't know what I was thinking.

I recently broke it off with an Fbuddy of mine who I've been pretty much banging 2 times a week. That was about 2 weeks ago.

I was in work yesterday - and was just as horny as a rabbit. I just had to get laid - I don't know what came over me.

So I was talking to a girl who I have banged a couple times in the past - and anyways told her that I needed to blow off steam and did she want to get ****tails after work. She agreed but said she had an appointment to go to at 8pm.

No problem. My plan was to get to the bar - grab a few ****tails - then Oh my goodness - look at the time - it's 7:50 already....

Which was pretty much how it worked out.

So 7:50 she called and cancelled her appointment.

Several drinks later we find ourselves back at my place - and one thing leeds to another - and I end up banging her.

She leaves and heads home. Great.

Now it's just down to damage limitation - because the next day - I just want to make sure that she doesn't get the wrong idea. I think I should be cool - but you never know.

Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it. The next morning, I'm sitting at work, nursing a slight hangover having got maybe 4 hrs of sleep last night - and for what - a little boom boom action.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Caveman

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You're a dog! :D

I don't see your problem though..
 

ER!C L!VE

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Originally posted by NewMan
So 7:50 she called and cancelled her appointment.
That's the hint you're looking for - when she starts blowing off other things for you. You know at that point that she's down. If a girl isn't down for that night, they'll tell ya that they gotta go and won't ask you to meet them later that night.

Originally posted by NewMan
Now it's just down to damage limitation - because the next day - I just want to make sure that she doesn't get the wrong idea. I think I should be cool - but you never know.
I'm sure she knows what's up. Unless you're talking with her about 'getting back together' or 'hanging out more often' or 'call her to set something up for this weekend', she'll know that you're just looking for nookie. it's ok..many many girls are too...and they don't want strings attached. Just has to be the 'right' guy.

Originally posted by NewMan
Sometimes I wonder if it's worth it. The next morning, I'm sitting at work, nursing a slight hangover having got maybe 4 hrs of sleep last night - and for what - a little boom boom action.
It always is! hehe...you can think back to the memories of fvcking her (if they're good ones) the next time you rub one out!


Nice job! Keep up the good work!
 

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If you treat her like your gf, she'll expect that to become reality.

If you treat her like a FB, she'll expect that to become the reality. Even if she would like a relationship eventually, she knows what's up.

If you don't want a relationship don't act like you do. Don't lead a woman on. I know two guys who's whole game consists of showing off their money then making a girl think they love them. After they fvck, they leave em. The guys even go so far as to give the girls a fake name and alternate cell phone so in case she gets pregnant she won't know his real name or number. The guys actually buy a second cell phone for this. Man, they are some lowly, pathetic fvckers. Don't be one of those guys.

I feel ya on getting no sleep. Lately I've started having the girls meet me at my place at 7-7:30pm. Gives us plenty of time to have some fun, have her leave around 11 or so, andget myself 8 hours of sleep.
 

princelydeeds

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She's an adult and she knows the rules. If she violates the rules thats her problem. Be consistent, yet a little distant. If she falls then she has to deal with it. As long as you don't lie or mislead her don't feel guilty. There is nothing wrong with having a woman who likes you more than you like her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good man Newman!

:) ~when you're smilin', the whole world smiles with you~ :)

I've gotten an awesome blow job every night this week since I hooked up with this girl on the weekend. Life is good!! :cool:

Of course, I can barely keep my eyes open at work these days. ;)
 
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