"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here's all I'll say, and BB has earned respect here so I understand that. But if it was almost anyone here besides BB and a few other guys who got a girl pregnant, most EVERYONE here would be saying...

"WTF ARE ARE YOU DOING GETTING A GIRL PREGGOS AT YOUR AGE!!!???"

F'in guaranteed.
That's because the impression that I have of BB is that he has got his sh!t together. He's got money, a mean of steady income and appears to be a well rounded guy. Comparing to the 100s of dumbas*es that are on this forum, he is miles ahead.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks for the kind words..

and I'm still scared to have sex knowing there is a baby inside thee. I might just hold out.
 

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I have another question. Right now she's about 7 weeks pregant.. and I can't tell yet. when it she going to start to show?

I can already hear the "you don't find me attractive anymore" talks now.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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she has. her parents live across the pond. I actually got to meet them a couple of weeks ago, we stopped there before we came back here. if she looks anything like her mom at her age, she will be fine ;). I was right.. parents definatly have al ittle bank.

My family on hte other hand, has no clue. we don't really keep in touch. however I'm on my way to keeneland again this weekend, and that following monday I will head home with her to let her meet my mom and dad and break the news tot hem before I go to Monmouth for BC days.

should be interesting. I mean.. not like I am scared or anything, I'm grown.. Considering I have 2 cousins 3 years younger than me with a combined 4 kids.. I dont' see how i can get any slack for being 25 with a newborn.

I'm pretty pumped. I've also been kinda slacking in my diet.. I mean I work out every day still and you can't tell looking at me, but that vacation basically took me back to the days of eating ou tevery night again.. and because I want her to eat right, which she does, I've been making a concious effort to eat healthier... I'm cooking pink salmon tonight ;)
 

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backbreaker said:
I have another question. Right now she's about 7 weeks pregant.. and I can't tell yet. when it she going to start to show?
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erhm every gal shows at a different point. for instance, i could tell at two months that i had some little pooch every time..... but i have pictures of right before i had all the kids and you wouldn't know i was pregnant in some and in other only think i was verily preggie when i was really about to give birth.
 

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backbreaker said:
and I'm still scared to have sex knowing there is a baby inside thee. I might just hold out.
until its time for the baby to be born, sex is safe and the baby can not see or feel you. the old wives tale is that they get rocked to sleep with the motion.
 

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it's not just that... I's more me. I just don't feel comfortable giving her the business with her being so what's the world... distracted by "it" in the way.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I just don't feel comfortable giving her the business with her being so what's the world... distracted by "it" in the way.
In my experience you will not have a choice in the matter. Women get insatiably horny, especially towards the end of their pregnancy. Don't be surprised if she rapes you!
 

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D!ck Ramsey said:
In my experience you will not have a choice in the matter. Women get insatiably horny, especially towards the end of their pregnancy. Don't be surprised if she rapes you!
:cry:
 

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D!ck Ramsey said:
In my experience you will not have a choice in the matter. Women get insatiably horny, especially towards the end of their pregnancy. Don't be surprised if she rapes you!
get raped often by many preggie chicks?

this too all depends on the chick because some do loose interest in late pregnancy due to all that moving weight they carry around... others it makes interest rise.
 

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penkitten said:
get raped often by many preggie chicks?

this too all depends on the chick because some do loose interest in late pregnancy due to all that moving weight they carry around... others it makes interest rise.
I suppose me finding the nearest strip club while she's showing is out of the question huh... don't thnk that would sit too well.

the sex isn't that big a deal. I have other crap going on. plus it just makes for better sex when we CAN hve sex. I gotta tell ya however.. we've been seeing each other afor what.. 8 months now, and dating since late June... the sex drive is still great. Every time I see her get in a bed I want to tap it. lol, about 2weeks ago I thought I had a dream I was jacking myself off... pretty nice dream.. well I wake up and she's literarly trying to rape me! which was pretty funny. "Why didn't you just wake me up!!"
 

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get raped often by many preggie chicks?
Lets just say I had a few incidents and leave it at that!

this too all depends on the chick because some do loose interest in late pregnancy due to all that moving weight they carry around... others it makes interest rise.
I suppose you are right, though I have yet to meet and exception to the rule. What about you, were you a big hornball or a giant prude when you were knocked up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I saw a pooch for the first time today. definatly pregant if there was any doubt at all.
 

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I am afraid to sleep with nothing less than a cute chick. When i had my easy chances with HB6.5s and stuff, because of the chance i might knock them up and end up with an ugly kid...don't want that!

I'd pull a K-Fed on any hot, rich girl though. K-Fed's a smart man...get a rich popstar to fall in love with you, marry her, knock her up twice, she makes you a rich man...you divorce her and collect child support for the rest of your days...he played her good!

Sh!t, P. diddy's ex GF is collecting 30k a month for her child support..which is outrageous!
 

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backbreaker said:
I saw a pooch for the first time today. definatly pregant if there was any doubt at all.
No way man. Way too soon. She's only been pregnant like a month and a half right?
 

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speakeasy said:
No way man. Way too soon. She's only been pregnant like a month and a half right?
if the conception night is the night I think it is, right at 8 and a half weeks.

don't get me wrong... she's not poking out.. but she normally has a 6 pack and it's not as 6 packy if that makes any sense. in other words, I'm noticing a physical change.

IT'S GROWING!!!!!!:eek:

I am interested to see what the baby is going to look like my darn self.
 

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is her butt getting bigger yet?
my pants would stop fitting between one and two months along.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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