"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm a complete tool lol...

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A little history - I have had some insane luck with women my whole life, you could say I was spoiled. Over the last couple years, it's been a bad slide down (Im moving into my 30s now). Well lately I can't get anything I want lol, I get girls mostly 6s a somewhat recent 7. Read this thread - http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=176235
This girl is on her way to my place now. However, MUCH later than originally planned. I was almost going to bail on her. So i was txt my buddy about how agitated I was and likened her to a stripper, you know superficially charming. Unfortunately I have the new blackberry curve..its VERY easy to mistext. I sent it to her. Without hesitation..i kept texting playing it off as if i was texting a friend about his chick problems. I'm F'D!! She's still coming but she sent me a txt saying she wants to head to the bar as soon as she gets here (in other words, doesnt want to come in). Any way to play this off any further to where it works in my favor lol? (I think I know the answer).
I was frustrated because 9 turned into 10 then 11 then 12. She did want to come to my place and park here (booty call which i would be happy with). Now..ugh..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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