I'm a chicken ****

[women haze]

Why am I afraid to call Females?? especially one's that I am interested in? It's strange I feel like I don't know what to say, should I focus on being funny? I don't want to bore her to death...

It's funny how when I was younger calling a female was nothing I never cared. Ever since I lost my LTR earlier this year I have been hesitant to follow through any New females that have entered my life.

I keep having a swim of doubts in my head. Has this happened to anyone else??? I mean for instance A friend of mine is somewhat trying to hook me up with his cousin. She is a cool ol girl and we have talked before, but I'm worried I want to impress and not bore her.... How does anyone get over this???

 

[women haze]

in Retrospect my confidence took a heavy blow I'm not even sure when it happened. I know inside myself that before I can more forward maybe professional help is what I need. As I look back on this post there is nothing that any of you can do for me...I thank anyone who took the time to read this regardless of whether you have the answers for me or not.....

bye guys....

 

[Splendidostring]

I used to feel stress when I approached a girl.

the solution = get some practice

Go talk to random girls ..try to get their numbers

Do it every day for a week you'll be fine.

 

[playerone]

Believe it or not, the only way to getting better at this is practice. Do it for yourself, do it for self-improvement. Don't think about getting the women for a second.

Force yourself to approach a hot woman. You may get nervous, you may fail, it's alright. Then you tell yourself, "See? I can actually do this." The key is to see them as a form of entertainment. You're bored, so you approach. It's fun to talk to them, and see how they react. Don't concentrate on the number or you will miss out on all the fun in the interaction. After you had your fun, just don't forget to say, "What's your number?"

You don't have to think of many different ways to get her number. These three words are good enough. If she's interested to know more about you, she will give you her number. If not, it is what it is, and you have to understand that your goal is not to attract every woman you meet, but to find a compatible one.

Your job is to approach, get her number, and ask her out. Leave the rest to her, she has to make it work.

 

[Allurre]

Dude. You should not even think about TRYING to impress her. That's pressuring yourself, and killing your naturalness.

If you want to call, DON'T TALK FOR LONG.

Ask how she's doing, what's new in life, and set up a date.

Talk more FACE to FACE.

 

[Tr9n]

With my current GF, I first called her with the intent of her rejecting me. I figured it would be good practice, though obviously I did try my best on the off chance it would work. She told me she had a crush on me and we started dating. Just call random girls you are casually friends with and ask em out. Its win-win: If they say no its extremely good practice for you and an ego boost for them, and if they say yes you get to start dating.