DarkSideOfTheMind
Don Juan
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This post is sort of a follow-up to one I made about my girlfriend playing games because I am going to graduate school in Hawaii for my PhD and leaving her behind. I have taken the smart advice offered here and the same my brothers offered and am going no matter what. I did the LJBF thing and it forced her hand, she professed her love yadda yadda.
Now we this is where I am confused. Last weekend she tells me she needs a break while she is up at school for the three weeks before she comes home for Christmas break. She needs to think about if she can deal with me being so far away etc, etc....I don't know what she means by this, and unfortunatly it has made me question being with her. My only question as to her meaning is does this mean I can bust out some numbers and start rolling again or what?? I went up to see her Friday for her birthday, thinking again to force her hand, didn't happen although the sex was awesome.
I am a somewhat moral being. And I am in a relationship with this girl for a few years. I don't want to cheat on her, but I don't feel like putting my life on hold for another two weeks while she decides. If anybody can shed some light on what she means it would be most appreciated.
Now we this is where I am confused. Last weekend she tells me she needs a break while she is up at school for the three weeks before she comes home for Christmas break. She needs to think about if she can deal with me being so far away etc, etc....I don't know what she means by this, and unfortunatly it has made me question being with her. My only question as to her meaning is does this mean I can bust out some numbers and start rolling again or what?? I went up to see her Friday for her birthday, thinking again to force her hand, didn't happen although the sex was awesome.
I am a somewhat moral being. And I am in a relationship with this girl for a few years. I don't want to cheat on her, but I don't feel like putting my life on hold for another two weeks while she decides. If anybody can shed some light on what she means it would be most appreciated.