"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm a bartender..

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Great line from Good Looking Loser that's better than the standard "come over to my place for a drink."

He tells chicks instead: "I'm a bartender. Come over to my place and let me fix you a drink."

Or you could tell chicks if you think they're going to ask: "Where are you a bartender?"

"I'm taking an online course for bartending. Come up to my place and let me fix you a drink."

It sounds like a better/ different twist enticing line as it gives the chick an excuse/ puts them at ease that "you're a bartender and that's why it's ok to come over to your place to fix her a drink" rather than just telling them to come over for a drink.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hmmm... I can see that being useful for some guys.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Hmmm... I can see that being useful for some guys.
Some dudes may get tired or don't feel comfortable with the standard line and it does put a twist on it as the chick may just be more apt to say yes as "you're a bartender".

After all. You could be a bartender. In your apartment..
 

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Oh man dont do fake lines.

Be straight and to the point.

If a woman wants to **** you she will **** you the fake **** only gets in the way.
 

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BrainDamage92 said:
Oh man dont do fake lines.

Be straight and to the point.

If a woman wants to **** you she will **** you the fake **** only gets in the way.
Relax. It's just a different twist to telling a chick to come over for drinks. Some dudes may prefer it. Some may not. No need to get all worked up about it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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