Cleatus VanDamme
Don Juan
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Met a cool girl at a party Saturday, we hit it off with the convo, she was very flirty and kept complimenting me, to the point it was kind of embarrassing because there were others around. I asked for the number early on, she said sure, we could go out as friends because she is dating someone right now. I made a light joke, got the number then socialized with others. Later we were together talking again, and age came up. She said she was 49 and mentally my jaw dropped because she was fine and didn't look over 30. Still the very high IL, and maybe it was the alcohol but before long we were holding both hands and it felt very intense...was going to go for the kiss but we were interrupted by her friend who wanted to go. So I decided to scram too, since things couldn't proceed. I told her I was going to call and she had me check I had her number right.
A mutual friend who dated her once and is my age (36) said that when they dated it didn't progress far because she had a hang-up about the age gap and kept bringing it up. And he saw the guy she is involved with and said he looks like he is in his 50's and looks as old as our father's age.
So I called the next evening and got voicemail, left a message and nothing. After a week I'll call again and if I get voicemail I'll leave a message saying I would like to meet for happy hour on XX night, then if she does not call then that will be it. Probably if anything was going to happen it would have been that night.
Any thoughts or suggestions???
A mutual friend who dated her once and is my age (36) said that when they dated it didn't progress far because she had a hang-up about the age gap and kept bringing it up. And he saw the guy she is involved with and said he looks like he is in his 50's and looks as old as our father's age.
So I called the next evening and got voicemail, left a message and nothing. After a week I'll call again and if I get voicemail I'll leave a message saying I would like to meet for happy hour on XX night, then if she does not call then that will be it. Probably if anything was going to happen it would have been that night.
Any thoughts or suggestions???