"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im 26 and Im pretty much in sexless relationship

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DaddyLongShanks said:
They say when someone is right for you they will make it easy. Also at the simplest core a gf or wife will want to please her bf or husband, even if she doesn't want to do it she will figure out how to do it.
DaddyLongShanks you have full PM fodler. Cant send you anything...

That makes sense. I bet i wouldnt be such a wuss if she wasnt my 1st serious gf, of course I was stupid once i fell in love and thought we will last (thats what everyone thinks in my opinion) before i caught feelings i was very well aware that most relationship dont work out and that i should enjoy every moment untill good stuff ends - I know you cant never put 100% of your heart in it...

Im pretty sure i wouldnt go 'so far' with her if i had more experiences.

You asked where i play bbal - I play in national league in my country (Europe) (since recession teams dont have money so this is just something i do mostly for myself not the money. I have a job, cant survive with the sport alone).

BIG TNX for support. Good luck to you!
 
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I sent you another email. Both you and your ex-lady are from Europe?

Keep in mind all women won't game you. Some will make it very easy for you and almost never take advantage. So you really don't want to dog these types out.
 
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