"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm 22 and i'm feeling attracted to a 14 years old girl.Advice Needed!

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Well the situation is pretty simple i'm 22 and i wanna do this 14 years old girl that study drums with me, i know i'm not a pedo cause eventhou she is 14 she has a crazy good body, at the 1st time i saw her i thought she was at my age because she looks like a real woman but then after she said her age and we started to talk,i feel kinda bad because she is very inexperienced ( but very hot)...

i feel this is not right also because of the age gap and that i should chase girls at my age...

What you guys would do in my place!?
ty
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you DO something and it progresses to the point of legal action then you just might find yourself in a prison yard with a bunch of older huge dudes who find YOU "hot" and dilate your azzhole by using it as their personal FiFi.

And you can guarantee once word gets out a 22yo piece of fresh meat is on the yard charged with sleeping with a 14 yo. They'll be running a Thomas the Train on your gaping anus.

No below legal age chick is that hot to risk the problems you'll find yourself in.
 

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If you live in the United States, you'll go straight to jail. And it's almost guaranteed to happen, because even though she may have a mature body, that mind inside her head still thinks like a 14 year-old. She will tell at least one friend, and the cat will be out the bag....

You'll be cooked.

Just say no.

Don't fall for the sucker bet.

The Gambler
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foreverAFC

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have a seat over there
 

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One of the big prisons near me had to be split in half to expand the chomo yard. Just like with drugs, this country is hell bent on locking up as many people as possible for the crime of being human. It is perfectly normal in a biological sense to be attracted to a girl that age - she's fertile as hell. You could probably knock her up by dry-humping her. The age of consent is a big scam to put more people in jail. My county's DA has made a career of it.

However, none of that changes the fact that they WILL put you in prison. Don't do it.
 

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It's not just about it being illegal, it's just wrong.
 

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Cassify said:
Well the situation is pretty simple i'm 22 and i wanna do this 14 years old girl that study drums with me, i know i'm not a pedo cause eventhou she is 14 she has a crazy good body, at the 1st time i saw her i thought she was at my age because she looks like a real woman but then after she said her age and we started to talk,i feel kinda bad because she is very inexperienced ( but very hot)...

i feel this is not right also because of the age gap and that i should chase girls at my age...

What you guys would do in my place!?
ty
Suffering.

I know how you feel. To see that fresh, firm, (almost) ripe fruit just asking to be plucked.

If you eat from that tree you will be banished from the garden and then you will know true suffering.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Although morally I don't think it's wrong (we've all looked and lusted over a jailbait before, and any man who says he hasn't is lying) it's completely wrong according to the legal system. One piece of @$$ is not worth yours getting pounded in a prison yard. Simply control your emotions and just say no.

-Scars
 

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you should learn to sing, play guitar, join the army, make a movie or two and show that you are a faithful christian. maybe then you get a pass, at least that is how it was with Elvis at the age of 24 when he met the 14year old Priscilla. of course he promised not to have sex with her before she became legal, but she was pretty hot and no healthy guy could wait that long without damage, so i have my doubts.
 

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You guys are right, i don't know what i was thinking.
risking to loose 10+ years of my life in prison because of a *****...

Also @PairPlusRoyalFlush this has nothing to do with emotions buddy ,sex is more like a primal instinct

Thank you for the advice fellas, i'm gonna use this site to ask more "serious" stuff like that from now on
 

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Bible_Belt said:
One of the big prisons near me had to be split in half to expand the chomo yard. Just like with drugs, this country is hell bent on locking up as many people as possible for the crime of being human. It is perfectly normal in a biological sense to be attracted to a girl that age - she's fertile as hell. You could probably knock her up by dry-humping her. The age of consent is a big scam to put more people in jail. My county's DA has made a career of it.

However, none of that changes the fact that they WILL put you in prison. Don't do it.
This is spot on. Morally there's nothing wrong with it. Biologically there's nothing wrong with it. Remember that throughout most of history girls were wedded off/paired off at 13-15 years of age - as soon as they were fertile, and the average life expectancy was somewhere between 28-35. People didn't live long.

There's nothing wrong with being physically attracted to her. If she's hot, your d!ck will get hard.

However, you will go to prison.

Get yourself an 18 year old.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt said:
One of the big prisons near me had to be split in half to expand the chomo yard. Just like with drugs, this country is hell bent on locking up as many people as possible for the crime of being human. It is perfectly normal in a biological sense to be attracted to a girl that age - she's fertile as hell. You could probably knock her up by dry-humping her. The age of consent is a big scam to put more people in jail. My county's DA has made a career of it.

However, none of that changes the fact that they WILL put you in prison. Don't do it.
Absolutely true, biologically, naturally, morally it's not wrong. Only legally it is wrong. Once a girl reaches the age of around 13 and starts mensis and develops physically, then she is sexually mature and not a child. Research with faces show BOTH men and women were most attracted to the facial features common to a girl of 14 years of age. Now if l the person is under 13 and has not sexually developed, then being sexual attraction to them would be perversion.

Regarding the legal system, it is ridiculous. Police were posing as 14-15fs on chat rooms and chatting sexually with men and agreeing to meet. This entrapment/fabrication (no real 14 or even a real girl was even talked to) is considered a felony and gets the person branded a "sex offender" for life. Which means you are blacklisted from even working at McDonald's or living most places.

The age of consent at 16 would be reasonable enough because by then all females would be fully sexually and physically matured, but nope that's considered a crime too.

Isn't it ironic that the justice sytem and criminals in jail think it's fair game to be truley raped and not only raped but gay raped for having consensual sexual contact with a 13-17 year old (which isn't really wrong in the first place)? In my book homosexuality is sexual perversion on par with true pedophila (attraction to prepubscent). And the whole reason the legal system goes after consent law violations so strongly is because it targets men's sexuality and natural attraction to female youth. It's also a large reason behind the drinking law to be at 21, and sexual harassment at work laws. Age of consent laws is just a pretext to anti-male sexuality.

What a perverted legal system and society we have. I most attracted to females between 19 and about 24 or median age of 21, but as an older man I can't really get that because it's almost psuedo-illegal and "creepy" by societal standards and brainwashing. It's all from the same mentality as 13-17 y. o .i s "too" young. If most women were attracted to 14-17 y.o males then it would become legal.
 

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Reminds me of the story of Odysseus.
 

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Back when I use to work at the school department I had teeny boppers hit me up constantly (I never did anything I had decent control). However one day the Guidance Counselor had one of the usual detentions kids sit in the office and had me tutor her math (I was a clerk working in guidance). So as I was teaching her the stuff it became clear this kid knew her **** and didn't really need me to teach her a thing. However shortly after realizing this, I noticed she got closer to me and with her leg started stroking my leg up and down up and down. She then whispered in my ear that she found me very attractive. At the time I was 20 and she was 15 and I really wanted to bang her since she looked good. But in the end of the day I knew the consequences and let it be.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
One of the big prisons near me had to be split in half to expand the chomo yard. Just like with drugs, this country is hell bent on locking up as many people as possible for the crime of being human. It is perfectly normal in a biological sense to be attracted to a girl that age - she's fertile as hell. You could probably knock her up by dry-humping her. The age of consent is a big scam to put more people in jail. My county's DA has made a career of it.

However, none of that changes the fact that they WILL put you in prison. Don't do it.
Completely agree with Bible Belt here. Yes, it's biologically normal to be attracted. With a lot of girls you can't visually tell the difference between a 14 year old and an 18 year old.

But they will lock you away for a LONG time, and you will be continuallly @ss raped for being a sex offender. In fact, they'll probably throw you in with a bunch of other sex offenders, who will be even more interested in @ss raping you. Unless you like having d!ck up your @ss, and losing your future and all your freedom, don't do it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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