"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm 21. They're 25+.

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Im working, studying, standard life stuff. Began gaming older chicks recently and have found huge returns.

Before I ask my question, they all know my age and aren't phased.

Chick 1. HB6/7. Asian. 26. Met her 3times. Only kissed her. Pushing for a relationship.

Chick 2. HB7. Blonde. 30. Just wants business ;)

Chick 3. HB7/8. Blonde. 28. Never met her, telephone conversations and erotic text messages. Has fallen in 'love' with me. Really wants to meet me, however she lives about two hours away and it is difficult with my working schedule.

Chick 4. HB10. Blonde. 28, Stripper. Enough said.

Now, why are these older chicks digging me? I know everything im doing it right, game etc... but is there some hidden agenda? Im enjoying every second of this but is there something i should be worried about? Anything to expect from the experienced geeza's?

Thanks in advance, Gold. :rolleyes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dunno, maybe you dress like a big boss? ;)
 

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im in the same situation as the OP except im now 22, i get approached by older chicks and the older chicks are always more receptive to my game.

even if i go clubbing as soon as i find out they are 25-27 i know its game on and i will eventually lay, i even had a 26 year old come to my work place and pretty much ask for my number and while all this is good i want young puzzy :(
 

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Looking back on myself ages 19-30, it seems like I only fvcked 26 year olds. That seems to be what I like, a slight bit of experience and maturity just before the looks start to go downhill. I agree that teenage girls are beautiful to look at, but it is miserable to have to talk to them. I felt the same way even when I was a teenager.
 

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Just like me, i find older women more appealing. Perhaps you seem more genuine and mature for your age. Could be several qualities that make you stand out.

I would try trim down your plates, unless you really have the time to run with all 4. The one that lives 2 hours away would be a logistic issue - way too much distance to cover.

Either way, make sure you and whichever girl know what the intentions of the relationship is.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt said:
Looking back on myself ages 19-30, it seems like I only fvcked 26 year olds. That seems to be what I like, a slight bit of experience and maturity just before the looks start to go downhill. I agree that teenage girls are beautiful to look at, but it is miserable to have to talk to them. I felt the same way even when I was a teenager.
The ONLY 20somethings I got a full close with were exactly 26. It's like some magic number lol.

Now I focus on 29 to 35. That is the sweet spot at my age. Younger than that and they're flaky. Older than that, they are too conservative.
 

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scribblec said:
im in the same situation as the OP except im now 22, i get approached by older chicks and the older chicks are always more receptive to my game.

even if i go clubbing as soon as i find out they are 25-27 i know its game on and i will eventually lay, i even had a 26 year old come to my work place and pretty much ask for my number and while all this is good i want young puzzy :(


Yeah its like its been put on a plate for me! Little work required..
 

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San Jose California said:
Anything above 27 is too old unless it's a ONE TIME thing, in order to gain experience. I mean, why would you continue going for these older girls, when 21 year old girls are clearly hotter? I repeat, it's only worth fvucking girls that old if it's a one time thing to gain experience, FOR the younger girls.

I'll take your word for it Cali, I'll try and develop game for chicks my own age lol!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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