i'm 20 soon, she's 17 soon, LTR?

[Tails]

i have some interest in a girl who is only 17 and i don't think LTR's ever last when the girl is that young, she'll always want to leave eventually being young and all, she wouldn't wanna stay with me forever ya know? they wanna have fun while they're still young.

but she and i have much in common, but i don't want to waste time with her if she's not going to be a LTR. cause it's something i am looking for atm. any advice?

 

[Avsguy01]

My friend is 22 and dating a 17 year old. If things are great do it. Just try to wait to have sex with her. 3 years isnt bad. Me and my girlfriend are 3 years and 3 months apart. Im 22 and she is 19

 

[Player_Supreme]

too young, atleast in the States you go to jail for that shyt. I don't know about the land of down under...maybe you outta eat a vegi-mite sandwich and just call it a day.

 

[Beethoven]

I think it's 16 here in the UK. Which is pretty weird considering we're all supposed to be prudes over here.

 

[Nightspark]

My friend all i can say is that expect to be slapped with an STR not an LTR. However it is possible to have an LTR in your situation. Since she is still only SIXTEEN (she's not 17 yet, just because she is one year older doesn't mean they mature) it will not guarantee you anything!

That's all i can tell you, which you have also posted up here by yourself, it's better to date someone that's in on the same wavelength as you, ie. someone more closer to your age (Based on my Experiences). Don't expect an LTR from a girl that young! I knew a girl who once dated for only 2 months and got rid of them, some strange trait she holds...

On another note: to answer your question Player_Supreme, yes it's legal to date in their circumstance but then again it raises the whole morality and ethics issues.

 

[Tails]

what if i'm 20 and she's 18? is that closer? also, i have another question. is it so wrong to date girls from the internet? MSN perhaps? i know i hear that it's really silly, but my last gf was from MSN and i didn't really mean to even date her, it all just happened and we fell for each other. it was great but i had to leave her alone, i had issues. by the time i fixed these issues it was too late

anyway, the reason i ask this is becaues the town i live is totally almost full of wh0res, you can't really find any decent gals down where i live. i haven't found any. however, online, i meet very nice gals that live about an hour away from me, somewhere else, the main city down here. infact, i just finished having a chat with a random girl who just msg'ed me and turned out to be a very beautiful blonde who is 18 in october. let's say i DID get to know her and decide to meet, is that so wrong? i haven't had any success finding real women offline where i live so maybe give the internet a shot?

 

[Nightspark]

Wait? Now she's 18? dude make up your mind! lol

Nah i reckon that's better... two adult ages dating is more stable than an adult dating a minor...

and yeah well who's to say that internet dating is wrong? After we now almost practically live off this overly time consuming piece of ....ahh.. yeah...

i dont think it's wrong and society doesnt think it either, like i said internet is now part of our lives, almost the same as going outside and picking a chick up. just that over the net it's more manually controlled (ie. u have to send them urr pic vice versa. for them to get that REALITY into it)

Tails dude btw, which state you live in?

 

[Tails]

no, this is another gal, lol. and what is it with the beautiful girls always says be right back, and when they get back they never tell you, lol. i have noticed many beautiful girls are very ignorant and careless, i suppose that's because they don't need to worry about guys, they know they can get almost anyone, right? but still, it's s.h.i.t.s me, i feel like blocking the b.i.t.c.h. this attitude from girls once turned me into an @sshole big time. i went through a phase where i really hated girls, lol. but i get over things real fast now and it's back to: "hey hey! it's happy time again!" i'm in perth by the way.

 

[b's nuts]

holy sh.it, you sound psycho. see a mental health professional in your area.

 

[Tails]

i see dead people.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Coming from a self-proclaimed LTR guy...

Are you operating under the assumption that every LTR is wasted if it doesn't lead to marriage? What are your goals for your relationships right now, are you just not going to bother if it looks like you won't spend eternity with a woman?

BTW...

Playa: 17 is beyond legal in Vegas, baby!

Beethoven: Sorry guy, you're still prudes.

-Cyrano

 

[Tails]

hmm, i think i just realised why i've been single since march last year. i have been avoiding so many girls since. for some reason, i just don't wanna waste my time on a girl i know that won't last. i know it's silly, but i hate putting my feelings out there for a girl and thinking we're the best two couples in the world, and the one day, BANG!, we're over. it would just seem like it was a waste of feelings. and i don't want to go through that again

this is why i don't date anymore that much, i think i try to avoid that. it's really fuked.