im 19 shes 24

[johnny_depp]

recently i just got a job and theres this chick thats pretty hot she is so damn cool to talk to. she lives close to my house like 2 miles away or a little less. but the thing is she is 24 and I am 19. but whats weird is im pretty sure she likes me. the reason I say that is because of little hints. like two days ago she asked me something and I shouldnt have but I said i was single and she told me it shouldnt be hard for you to find a girlfriend all you have to do is ask for a number. little hints like that. so what i want to know is should I ask this girl out? the reason I feel kinda weird asking her out is because im only 19 shes 24 I cant really do much. why would she want to waste time with me? please help guys i have no one to help me.

 

[krasnyiLion]

you are already f*cked!!! You will mess it up with her, and even if you get with her she will end up dumping you.

Age is not an issue, if she likes you she will make it easy for you and she will let you lead no matter what. the reason you are already out of luck is because you admitted to have put her on a pedestal, you feel you are not worthy of her time. you ask "why would she waste time with me?"

now you asked what to do?
here is what to do

ask for her phone number.
ask her out on a date. No hanging out crap,
once you are on a date, start out patting her pack, joking with her and following up with an arm around her, or poking her (playful touching [non sexual] at first)
then KISS HER.

now, the only way, and i mean it
the only way you will know if she likes you is if you kiss her
there is nothing i can say or anyone can say here that will tell you that she likes you.
For that matter, she is not a reliable source, if you want to find out if she is interested, if she is just playing with you, or if she thinks you are ONLY A FRIEND.
the ONE THING YOU HAVE TO DO IS KISS HER

 

[Phrozen]

Yea, listen to Krasny. Chicks love pats on the back. One time I made this girl orgasm just through back patting alone.

 

[Kings_royalty]

the reason I say that is because of little hints. like two days ago she asked me something and I shouldnt have but I said i was single and she told me it shouldnt be hard for you to find a girlfriend all you have to do is ask for a number. little hints like that

Don't ask her out (at least not yet) she'll be expecting that. What you need to do is play with her a little, flirt, drop hints back to her, and build some anticipation. Get what I’m saying? If you ask her out now, you would have lost any chance to really amp up her Interest Level and get her excited.

Girls enjoy the tease, the flirting, and the tension. Get her to the point where her heart skips a beat every time she sees you, THIS will separate you from the rest, as well as give you 'confidence' (which you really need from what I can see).

Once you have hit the ‘mark’, THEN ask her to lunch, or something else ‘casual’. Dates always seem to bring allot of tension, pressure and expectations to the table, you don’t want that.

As far as your ages go, don’t worry about it, it’s only a ‘factor’ if you make it so.

 

[CharmCityMD]

Why would you even need advice on this one? She is older then you, and she looks good? There is no reason for discussion, put your bid in,.. you should tell her "you can teach her a few things(with sexual inuendo)" flirtingly one day, i bet she'll think its cute..

 

[johnny_depp]

thank you to everyone that responded.

 

[Budheavy]

"should I ask this girl out?"

If you are vibing with this chick then go for it. Age means nothing intially. I'm sure 1/2 of the guys on this forum have stories about how they hooked up with a woman 5-10 years older than them. If she is attracted to you than this is a no brainer... MAKE THE CLOSE! Also, don't ask her out instead TELL her your going to take her out.

"why would she want to waste time with me?"

I believe you have some reading/field practice to do. She wants to spend her time with you because YOU are the guy around her who is worth spending time with. Don't doubt yourself! Women will smell your lack of confidence before you even say hello.

 

[penkitten]

uhm been there done that.. run

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

uhm been there done that.. run

how about some details?