"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im 16Hrs away from cheating, Am i ?

Itiswhatitis

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Well with ur friend going up to her not to believe a girl who might say u asked her to ****, maybe ur g/f really doesn't care and has had enuff of ur bull**** also. What ur friend was tellin her sounds like a obvious cover up and she probaly thinks u cheated on her already. That would easily explain why she is not callin u. So u might as well cheat now cuz she thinks u did any way I bet. That "coverup" ur friend tried was horrible and sounded like u cheated on her and was trying to rub it in her face thru your friend.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the ***** aint much of a women either for throwing all that bull**** at him for no reason. A real women wouldnt do that **** to her man, shes not even fulfilling her duties, so a man obviously has to go out and satisfy his needs. Staying loyal to some ***** is ****ing overrated.
 

Plain & Simple

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Originally posted by undesputable
the ***** aint much of a women either for throwing all that bull**** at him for no reason. A real women wouldnt do that **** to her man, shes not even fulfilling her duties, so a man obviously has to go out and satisfy his needs. Staying loyal to some ***** is ****ing overrated.
ok another one sees how i feel.

The thing is that non of us have said that we are done or broken up. Everytime she gets mad she does this sh1t and stops talking to me and ignoring me, only difference its that now im fed up her always doing that, specially in this scenario when i did nothing wrong, i think next time i see her or she calls me cause i damn sure not going to call her, ill tell her straight up, that if she is gonna handle this situation like that then we are done for good.

She ignoring me shows that she really dont give a damn about me, we only had sex 1 time in the past month for god shakes...im really not going to stay in this RL unless she changes her devil ways.
 

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P&S: You Gf is not a keeper... If I was in your situation, I'd cheat too... It might not be honourable to your gf, but I need to get on with life and avoid any oneitis AFC regression...

I think the cold treatment is disrespectful... she's waiting for you to cave.. and reduce yourself down to an AFC...

Call her bluff.. break up with her and watch her reveal the truth...
Of course, I could be wrong!!! but I see your relationship only workable with great difficulty...
 

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stfu and break up with your girlfriend

sex once a month... always mad at little things.. come on fcuking dump her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Plain & Simple

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Well the chick flaked on me, i called her and she didnt pick up, i dint bother calling again.

so i didnt cheat :)


As far as me and my gf, i think the end is here, ima tell her straight up, the silent treatment that she does everytime she gets mad, towards me for like a week or so or better yet until i kiss her ass and approach her, and the lack of sex 1 time a month, and her getting mad for every lil stuff has to end if she wanna continue the RL, otherwise its gonna be THE END, for real this time.

However im not gonna contact her at all until i see her then ill approach her and tell her, if she does call me then its a different story.
 

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Look if she's freaking out all the time over stupid **** just leave her. If she doesn't make you happy and your looking to cheat just leave her. That way you'll be free to fu*k all you want and you won't have to worry about wether or not it's cheating PLUS: SHE'S IN COLORADO! Jesus man come on your not happy so get out and be done with it. Your not doing her any favors by making her cry over stupid **** all the time and you're sure as hell not doing yourself any favors by sticking with her. Believe me man I know. I stuck with a woman like that for 3 1/2 years and it was the biggest F*cking mistake I ever made. So trust me when I say FU*K THAT! Don't give up on long term relationships but do remember what you want in a girl.... aside from looks that is.
 

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Its only cheating if you feel guilty about it the next day. Well how the hell do you know if you're gonna feel guilty about it tomorrow if you don't go ahead and do it today! :D

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