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Only had 1 girlfriend, and I was set up with her. Am I normal?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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So, dude, I haven't even had a girlfriend yet, and I'm also 16. You should consider yourself lucky.
 
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MrConfidence said:
So, dude, I haven't even had a girlfriend yet, and I'm also 16. You should consider yourself lucky.
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Well, considering that you're Viper...
Anyway dude, she was bow wow. I always seem to attract the ugly ones, dude. I'm even looking at Sophomore girls, and considering it, even though as a Junior I always thought that was desperation.
 
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Yehh man I thought that goin for younger girls ws "desperate" too... but it'll probably be best cuz u dun have a lotta classes with them, and highschool girls are almost alwwwayyyys looking for olfer guys.... so my advice = go for ittt (i did ;] )
 
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1. I don't know what it's like where you live, but here litterally 80-90% of 16-yrs-old are virgin. Hell, I graduated this year (we have a "k13" here in Italy) and 4 guys outta 5 were virgins... and that's pretty normal here.

2. What's so bad in a junior that flirts with a sophomore? Even seniors with freshmen is not perceived uncool in my school if the girl doesn't look like she's just finished junior high (although she actually has). A 19-yr-old friend of mine made out with a 14-yr-old girl at a party this summer... and he's not desperate for pùssy, in fact he had just broke up with his girlfriend, a 19-yr-old HB9.
 
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i dont think you should worry about the virgin thing at all. why should you? is it really that important? as for the girl friend, keep trying. you'll get another eventually. by the way, i suggest you get her(who ever) on your own, no help from anyone other than advice like on this forum. because when(or if) they say yes you feel really great about it.
 
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That's nothing!

I know some 10 year old dude that's a virgin!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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Nobody said:
Well, considering that you're Viper...
Anyway dude, she was bow wow. I always seem to attract the ugly ones, dude. I'm even looking at Sophomore girls, and considering it, even though as a Junior I always thought that was desperation.
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Your point is? Girls would lucky to get a date with a guy like me. Talented, and good looking all in one package. Now if only I was confident enough about those things to approach them. Still, I'm missing the bad thing about being Viper.
 
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lol mr.con

get some friends and try through your friends friends or something that has always worked.

Get a bit of a social life.
 
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lol mr.con

get some friends and try through your friends friends or something that has always worked.

Get a bit of a social life.
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One step ahead of you buddy, I already do band.

But let's not hijack this dudes thread by talking about me.
 
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i'm 18, ive had 3 girlfriends, and i'm a virgin...of course your normal...theres people out there in there 20's who still are. Just try to do something to change it, i've been trying to do the same. Just one thing I don't suggest doing like some of these guys are trying to tell you is "Just accept it and live a normal life, it will come to you eventually" because thats bull****, ive tried that route.......for 16 years of my life, that hasn't worked, at least now with some dedicated i have gotten a bj
 
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uhh... you're only 16, you have the rest of your life ahead of you to make relationships and have sex. <-Think of it this way.
 
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Nobody said:
Well, considering that you're Viper...
Anyway dude, she was bow wow. I always seem to attract the ugly ones, dude. I'm even looking at Sophomore girls, and considering it, even though as a Junior I always thought that was desperation.
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Dude, age doesn't matter. I'm a junior and I go for freshman to seniors.
 
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Hey I remember those days! Do NOT worry about it. I was in your shoes until I was 19. I thought it would NEVER happen. Now I look back and realize it is no big deal. If theres something I can say: don't waste your time worrying about this. I'd give my left nut to be 16 again...things would be different. Take this site, and live your teens the best they can be lived. You are already way ahead of me when I was your age!
 
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MrConfidence said:
Girls would lucky to get a date with a guy like me. Talented, and good looking all in one package.
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:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:


Hahaha. Funniest thing I heard all day. Maybe it's something to do with the fact you're always on here moaning?
 
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WesCottII said:
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:


Hahaha. Funniest thing I heard all day. Maybe it's something to do with the fact you're always on here moaning?
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It's good to have confidence man, but the confidence must have meaning, i want to say the cool guys never say they are cool because they ... just know it :)
 
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Only had 1 girlfriend, and I was set up with her. Am I normal?
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Back to the topic. Yeah, you're totally normal. I didn't have a kiss until I was 17, virgin till 18 and I used to think "ahh man...Imma be a virgin all my life". I actually looked at my life and saw I didn't do anything/go anywhere to meet girls.

I'm pretty good with women now, had mnay g/f's ONS' etc....all it took was for me to get off my arse and meet some birds.
 
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