"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm 16 and have a company. Bank loan possible?

Double_Diamonds

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Hey guys, I'm 16 years old. I live in minnesota, and run a Sole Proprietorship: M J Walsh Services. Basically, I buy and sell electronics.

Now, I'm wondering if it is legal, or possible for me to get a bank loan. I want to get one, in my companies name (yes I'd still be liable, sole proprietorship) for $2500. I would use this to buy Nanio Compactos (like nanos) in bulk before the opportunity is gone. I have a good wholesaler, and a trusting small town bank.

The problem arises here: I'm a minor and I don't have a lot of account activity with the bank. I do use both my regular and business checking accounts on a regular basis. For about a week, they were overdrafted and I had to pay about $10 in fees. Also, my account balances are pretty low.

What do you guys think? If it's not possible, any alternate ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bible_Belt

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this is not legal advice

yes I'd still be liable

Actually, no. As a minor, you cannot enter into a non-voidable contract. The business world will not be very friendly to you until you turn 18 or you operate through someone who is of legal age. But fwiw you are certainly very industrious for a 16 y/o and will probably be very successful in life.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Voidable_contract

If a minor were to enter into a contract with an adult, the adult would be bound by the contract, whereas the minor could choose to avoid performing the contract.
 

g g g unit

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Double_Diamonds cant you just get one of your parents to take the loan out for you or anyone else you know thats over 18 it sort of removes 99% of the bother then. ciao
 

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Double_Diamonds said:
Hey guys, I'm 16 years old. I live in minnesota, and run a Sole Proprietorship: M J Walsh Services. Basically, I buy and sell electronics.
Is M J Walsh Services an actual company, registered with your Secretary of State's office, or is it a name you came up with for a non-taxpaying business venture? As you're a minor, this is moot anyway, but assuming you weren't then you'd have to get a personal loan with your signature for 2500 if the business isn't legal. If it was legal, you'd have to go in and find out what requirements you'd need to meet in order for your business to take the loan out. Best bet is to go to the bank anyway and explain what it is you need, propose a method of paying it back, and bring your parents (or someone else who would be willing to cosign and take responsibity for the debt if you default on it...)
 

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diablo said:
Is M J Walsh Services an actual company, registered with your Secretary of State's office, or is it a name you came up with for a non-taxpaying business venture? As you're a minor, this is moot anyway, but assuming you weren't then you'd have to get a personal loan with your signature for 2500 if the business isn't legal. If it was legal, you'd have to go in and find out what requirements you'd need to meet in order for your business to take the loan out. Best bet is to go to the bank anyway and explain what it is you need, propose a method of paying it back, and bring your parents (or someone else who would be willing to cosign and take responsibity for the debt if you default on it...)
A sole proprietorship doesn't have to be registered with the SoS's office. A sole proprietorship is just someone who decides to start a business, just like that. No offical paperwork involved, and the business's net income gets placed onto the income line of his 1040. If he wants to keep his business name though, he should get a certificate of assumed or fictitious name. But Bible Belt is correct, he will not obtain a bank loan as a minor since any contract he enters into is voidable by him.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think banks give out loans for that little amount unless it's a credit card.
 
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