"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'll text you later k?

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If she says she'll call or text you later, should you wait until she does so before contacting her? My opinion is that it will show if shes interested or not if she follows through with it or not.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i wouldnt hold my breath if i were you.....but you need to include more details....first date? just met? in a relationship?
 
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Well hmm, you shouldn't 'wait' for it perse. If she texts, ok great, if not, well no time to worry about that!

When i get something like this i just leave them alone for a while then i'll ring sometime later and see if they are free for anything. If not, that's all she wrote ;-)
 

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I was watching the Boondocks the other night, and they brought up a great point. Why spend 15 minutes typing 3 sentences when they could call and say it in 5 seconds?

Don't get hung up over a text. If she really wants to get in touch, she will call.
 

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Ah texting, is all the rage these days. It sure stretches out a conversation, but its still as personal as AIM and those things. I say just go off and do your thing, if she calls, drop a 5-10 minute conversation and then get back to what you were doing. If she texts you, just reply with "This stuff takes too long, call me."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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In short yeah, wait. Then don't answer for ages.....conveys that you're doing something other than waiting by your phone.
 

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Eccentric said:
I was watching the Boondocks the other night, and they brought up a great point. Why spend 15 minutes typing 3 sentences when they could call and say it in 5 seconds?

Don't get hung up over a text. If she really wants to get in touch, she will call.
Excactly.
 

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ManUnited01 said:
If she says she'll call or text you later, should you wait until she does so before contacting her? My opinion is that it will show if shes interested or not if she follows through with it or not.
Most of the girls who say this to me are a joke...

First, I'd probably laugh at her because that's more than likely, utter BS... I sure as hell wouldnt wait around for her to text/call me ...

If she does call/text ... I wouldnt be in some huge hurry to answer it ... After all, the comment she made put her in charge and not u ... dont read any more into this ... keep sarging my fellow DJ ........
 

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i was gonna say the same thing as above. from personal experience, girls who give you the old "i'll text you later" line are flaking big time.

and girls aren't like us guys, we're idiots and actually DO forget to call later... but you'd better believe girls remember when they tell a guy, "i'll call you later" and don't...
 

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She ended up texting me two days after, so alls good. Must be doing it right...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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