"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As a self-confessed chronic procastinator, I always find myself thinking this. I delay things that are important or that I want to achieve. I'm optimistic - I really do think that I can make the best of my life and truely do great things If I put my mind to it.

However, the problem seems to be, and I have seen this elsewhere on the board, that:

It is easier to do nothing than to make a change for the good.

In my life I am always given the choice of two paths and I'd always rather take the easy route than the hard one, I always seem to end up back where I started, even more irritated that I have yet to achieve something despite my, or lack of, efforts.

My question is, have any other prospective DJ's out there found themselves thinking along the same routes and if so, how did they slay this mentality once and for all?

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Started powerlifting. It also trains discipline and a strong mind.

As a bonus, the testosterone you create is like a drug for motivation.

All the great DJ's on this site recommend it (Pook, A-Unit, DIESEL)
 
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I'm afraid that, for me, that really isnt an option.

I live far far out in the countryside, not by my own choice I might add, the nearest corner shop is two miles away and the nearest gym is about twenty. Due to this and the fact that dont yet know how to drive this also creates a bit of a social problem that for the last 6 years of my life has been a nightmare to overcome. At the moment I dont have a job and even if I wanted to buy weights etc - I dont have the money or am well enough situated to find a job for things like protein shakes and equipment.

I'm building up to some very important exams at the moment and I find that I dont really have any desire to perform or excel as I know I am able to - I'm continually falling asleep or being led astray by my desire to do something that is just easier to do.

I know I can do better. Any other advice? :)
 
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