"I'll Change"

[Stratocaster]

Okay guys, I've noticed something the past couple days that bugs me.

Lots of guys, when the girl breaks up or wahtever, will say "I will change so we can go out again bla bla"

When has it ever been said that a DJ changes for a girl!? And besides that, you lose ALL dignity, pride and balls when you say that, in my opinion. Come on fellas, lets think of something a little better than "I will change." Saying that puts her on a pedestal and puts you at her mercy. It's just not a good thing for a confident person to say.

I would say "Well, I really don't think it's a big problem, but the choice is yours whether you want to stay together"



Eric

 

[Soshyopathe]

BTW, "I will change" is a big puss move and works 0% of the time.

 

[mr.buick]

If a girl breaks up with you, and you change to try and win her back, You are a COMPLETE ***** WITH NO TESTICLES !!! Forget about her, and stick with male friends for support. They will always be there for you!
John

 

[Sammo]

Under no circumstances should you lose your individuality for a girl, some people mix it up with adaptibility so make sure you dont confuse the 2. If you want to break up with the girl then i would just give her a "Sorry this isn't working for me" thats all i'd say. If she broke up with me i would act like its no big deal, keep smiling and having a good time, because in the end... it is no big deal.

 

[Titus]

Originally posted by Stratocaster And besides that, you lose ALL dignity, pride and balls when you say that, in my opinion.

Jesus H. Christ, do you have a problem, guy! Pride? Dignity? Balls?
Have you ever considered that all frustrations, anger and failures that we face everday comes EXATCLY from what you just wrote? From the fact that we are afraid our own ego will hurt us?
Once you stop being afraid of losing it, lots and lots of pain will diminsh. Permanetly.

 

[Ronny_Neumonic II]

Originally posted by Stratocaster
Okay guys, I've noticed something the past couple days that bugs me.

Lots of guys, when the girl breaks up or wahtever, will say "I will change so we can go out again bla bla"

When has it ever been said that a DJ changes for a girl!? And besides that, you lose ALL dignity, pride and balls when you say that, in my opinion. Come on fellas, lets think of something a little better than "I will change." Saying that puts her on a pedestal and puts you at her mercy. It's just not a good thing for a confident person to say.

I would say "Well, I really don't think it's a big problem, but the choice is yours whether you want to stay together"



Eric

Thankgod some of the newer people are getting this. I just read a post from a guy who's been here for a little while which said the same thing - "I can change blah blah". What a bítch. If SHE broke up with you then she doesn't want to go out with you any more, if she did THEN SHE WOULDN'T HAVE BROKEN UP WITH YOU.

 

[Smooth as Anything]

Re: Re: "I'll Change"

Originally posted by Titus
Jesus H. Christ, do you have a problem, guy! Pride? Dignity? Balls?
Have you ever considered that all frustrations, anger and failures that we face everday comes EXATCLY from what you just wrote? From the fact that we are afraid our own ego will hurt us?
Once you stop being afraid of losing it, lots and lots of pain will diminsh. Permanetly.

I like this guy