i was introduced to this girl and i was a little straight forward with her, considering i was leaving and in a hurry. So i pretty much just asked for her number pretty fast. She gave it to me and i dont know anything about her. She told me to call her. I called once, got a text the next day saying sorry i missed your call ill talk to you soon. I call again the next day and she texts me back and says im busy with school all week, ill call you soon. Now i havent called her since. Do you think she is scared to talk to me? or what? Should i just text her? or should i just get on with my buisness? I dont know really what to do, this chick is like a A-,shes hot.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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wait for her to call back.
sounds like a bunch of BS to me. she could just be tryin to lay u off nicely. i had a girl like this, always seemed to be busy everytime i called her. she said i was calling her at the "wrong times". so i just stopped calling and told her i wouldnt talk to her unless we talked on the phone (she was a text fiend). so basically the next day she broke and asked me to call her later. i did, and now she doesnt pull that bs anymore.
be straight with her. call a few more times, if she still pulls the same stuff, than dont call back. wait for her to call. and tell her this texting is not a form of communication that u want to paticipate in. if she doesnt talk on ur standards, than next her.
be straight with her. call a few more times, if she still pulls the same stuff, than dont call back. wait for her to call. and tell her this texting is not a form of communication that u want to paticipate in. if she doesnt talk on ur standards, than next her.
Read this again 3 times and see whether it makes sense... if not let me drop my 2 cents.ds1ur1f said:
It takes longer to text message someone then to call them and the irony of it is that you text message someone using their CELL PHONE!!!! she was right there with the cell phone texting away so why didn't she call you instead??!!
Drop the flakey girl.
PLENTY of times where a person i was intrested in id' rather just txt intead of call, it saves time in the long run espeiclly if you don't really want to get into a conversation. Or i'm at work and i can't call. I perferr txting and talking on the phone about the same.. because i do both about the same. Txt is an easy way to set a plan in motion for something to do later in the day..DJDamage said:
EDIT: However an entire day later and all you got was a txt message NEXT wtf is that garbage lol if i call a girl and i get a txt message back, normally its within 15 min and it says call me in 5 min, i'm on the phone etc..
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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I'm willing to bet this is the most commonly asked question on sosuave, just with varying scenarios. First off you said you were in a rush, which made you ask for her number relatively quick, without creating a connection. Do you know what that does to a girl?? It makes alarm bells go off, telling her that this guy only wants to get in my pants.
I can't stress this ENOUGH, focus on creating rapport with a girl, engage her, make her qualify herself to you and she will be DYING for your phone call. If you get good at it, she'll probably call you before you call her, although that is rare for newbies.
This girl isn't interested, flat out. As Damage said, takes longer to text, then it does to return a call. In the future work on finding a connection with a girl, whether it be making her laugh, a movie, an event and build on that throughout the conversation. Drop in a little bit of ****iness and your in.
PIMP
I can't stress this ENOUGH, focus on creating rapport with a girl, engage her, make her qualify herself to you and she will be DYING for your phone call. If you get good at it, she'll probably call you before you call her, although that is rare for newbies.
This girl isn't interested, flat out. As Damage said, takes longer to text, then it does to return a call. In the future work on finding a connection with a girl, whether it be making her laugh, a movie, an event and build on that throughout the conversation. Drop in a little bit of ****iness and your in.
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I cannot contribute anything than what has been already said --- I'm just adding to my post count 
just text her and say Dinner (or coffee) on Thursday, yes or no
no matter how busy she is she pretty much has to eat...If she won't talk to you then texting to set up the date seems permissable. Just make sure that she either confirms or doesn't.
no matter how busy she is she pretty much has to eat...If she won't talk to you then texting to set up the date seems permissable. Just make sure that she either confirms or doesn't.