"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'll call you later

612_Da_Playa

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I hate it when you are talking to a girl on the phone and she's like "I'll call you later." and never does. Does this happen to anyone else? How do you deal with it?

I'm thinking that may mean she isn't interested but who do you guys react to it?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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shark

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make sure you're the one who's saying "i'll see you later". You should be ending the calls most of the time. Be in control, show her that you have other things to do and in your life other then talking to her.
 

NYC Dude

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If the conversation hasn't been going on for that long (only a few minutes) and she drops that, either she better have a damn good reason or she is not interested. Still, it is best to end conversations on your terms before they get too lengthy.
 

DJ4Real

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It is ideal for us "DJs" to end the call first. When you end the call first it shows 2 things: You have a life, and you have control over yourself. You can't be perfect! because chances are, the lady will end it first a few times. But a good ratio 5:1 when it comes to you hanging up first. Don't worry about it, it comes naturally after a while.:cool:
 
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