"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"I'll call you later"

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gonzalo

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Whenever a girl says she'll call, I still like to retain the ball on my court, to not give all control to her.

- Can I call you later?
- Sure, but if anything I'll see you tomorrow at noon.

or

- Actually, I'm about to [go watch bestiality porn], let me call you later tonight ok?

You know? If you agree to be in the position where you WAIT for her to call, you give control away and have nothing but wait for her to take action.

A word about friends: As much as I trusted and loved my ex gf, her friends did in fact poison her mind and in a way triggered us breaking up. It's one of those situations where you can't win, if you diss the friends, she sides with them, if you ignore them, they **** your girl up. The way I've come to thing about it is that if your girl allows herself to be persuaded by the friends and act against your best interest, then there's no point holding on to her.
 
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