i don't know how many times i have had a girl give me her number or got a girl's number, called her up within one-three days, had a short convo with her(1-5min) and she says she'll call me back later and ends the convo....and you guessed it, never calls back. how should i react to this? i mean almost every one of these girls show lots of interest, some call back after a few days, but most just wait for me to call. is this a test? is it a way to play games?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
"i'll call ya right back"
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
You're not doing your job when you first meet if this is happening. Build more attraction and rapport during the pickup. Phone numbers are not a goal, they are a means of communication. Fvcking is the goal.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Explain... If there is a lack of interest on her part why call back? Also, why wait three days, is something suppose to happen within that time to make her change her mind? Finally, why act as if nothing happened, is it permissible for her to act this way?sexy_kuta said:that a sign of lack of interest.
phone them back 3 days later and act like nothing happend.. start fresh,
Francisco d'Anconia said:Explain... If there is a lack of interest on her part why call back? Also, why wait three days, is something suppose to happen within that time to make her change her mind? Finally, why act as if nothing happened, is it permissible for her to act this way?
lack if interest because he didnt create enough rapport...
calling back in 3 days doesnt show ur desperate,
you should call back and give it another shot. it doesnt work then move on,
always think postivite.. maybe she had a bad day or something came up and she couldnt return your call? maybe has been working alot
always think postitively
and why act like nothing happend? because its nothing big enough to trip over, wow she didnt call me back.. imma biiitch her out! nooo hell no,
no need to trip out or "talk" to her about something
make it show that it doesnt borther u either
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I had this happen to me last week.
I went and told this girl that I've been gaming for a while that I was going to come pick her up and we re going to go to a party that night. She said, "am I getting paid?" I said "no, but there might be food." So she said she would go, and told me to call her later on after she got off work.
So I called. Talked to her for a little bit, and then she said the line, "let me call you right back." I waited a while, and then I called again (stupid idea) and she said that this other friend of hers wanted to come so could I just give her directions or could they just follow me over there. I said, "whatever." and again she says, "I'll call you back in about 15 minutes when I'm finished getting ready."
I waited again, and then I just left for the party by yself and ended up having an awesome time, and then we ended up at some dive bar by the end of the night. Never did hear from the b1tch.
So, sadly she has been NEXTD.
I went and told this girl that I've been gaming for a while that I was going to come pick her up and we re going to go to a party that night. She said, "am I getting paid?" I said "no, but there might be food." So she said she would go, and told me to call her later on after she got off work.
So I called. Talked to her for a little bit, and then she said the line, "let me call you right back." I waited a while, and then I called again (stupid idea) and she said that this other friend of hers wanted to come so could I just give her directions or could they just follow me over there. I said, "whatever." and again she says, "I'll call you back in about 15 minutes when I'm finished getting ready."
I waited again, and then I just left for the party by yself and ended up having an awesome time, and then we ended up at some dive bar by the end of the night. Never did hear from the b1tch.
So, sadly she has been NEXTD.
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
WTF kind of a question is that? Is she an escort?She said, "am I getting paid?"
No, she works at an eatery. She's basically a femal DJ. Everytime she says, "am I getting paid? or something along the same line she immediately follows it up with, "I'mjustkidding." Just like that too, all one word. She's fun and all, but not worth the time.