Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ignoring the Ex

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He Guys, i Split up with the EX about a month ago, it was going pretty crappy and she was disrespecting and also being bit*h.
She has made contact a few times by SMS just wondering "how i was" and the usual stuff. I never responded and i have since deleted her number etc. I tend 2 do that, if someone messes with me i completely cut them off. Is it wrong for me 2 b that hard with her, or should i just be polite and say im doing fine and leave it at that. Im still very mad at her, she knows this but i just dont want 2 talk 2 her now. I f a new job and have just graduated and have since moved 2 a new town, she messed up. Any tips?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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im doing the same thing right now to my ex that cheated on me. I moved to a new town and have since ignored every phone call and been a step ahead when she tries to catch me coming out of work. Its driving her crazy but i bet its teaching her a lesson. Not sure what this girl did to you but walking away is the best advice ive ever read on this website and it works in so many situations. It truely is the best weapon we have as it shows the female every trait that she wants in a man.
 
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Well i hope things are working out for you now Dice, new beginnings and all that. I really just had enough of her crap. It was a constant barrage of lies and "her friends first" attitude and then not contacting me when she went 2 the states for the summer. She has since apologised and admitted that she was a bit*ch and how that she didnt deserve me etc. Its amazing how weak and insecure women are when you take the power back.
 
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wtf? she's disrespectful and a b1tch and you're considering her feelings?
 
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thats the easist way to get over somone. Forgetting about them and anything that may remind you of them :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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