Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ignoring patterns

tmpgstx

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I've identified a very consistant pattern among attractive girls with insecurities about their looks. They're often the type that go for jerk types, because the jerk dis-regards their looks and treats them as he would any other girl he isn't attracted to. This forces the girl to want and get his approval in that she is worthy based on what she puts a lot of stock into (her looks).

Having said this, these attractive girls often practice the principal below around guys they are very attracted to but do not know:

"Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge" - Law 36.

I've experienced this i don't know how many times. I'll see a girl around once and awhile i find very attractive only to have her completely ignore me (i mean going out of her way literally to do so) and then later on hear she likes me alot though a friend or by coming around me later at other times wanting me to talk to her (really obvious). So we talk and can tell she's quite nervous and we have great chat and then later it's back to the same game. Completely ignoring me as if i don't exist.

It's usually the ones with boyfriends and that explains part of it as they like you and want your attention, but also want to keep you at a distance, yet still hanging in the balance. Now i'm finding the singles ones doing the same thing! Catching them looking and then looking at them to have them turn away as if i wasn't supposed to catch them and back to the ignoring thing.

Has anyone else experienced this? Are you considered to be very good-looking and have this happening? I'm not trying to make an issue here about looks - just curious because it's happening to me quite often. It's all by HB10s too (or what i consider to be 10s).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AmIAFC

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Yeah, and funny thing is...it happens with girls I've had ONS with. I would think they're comfortable enough around me to behave more friendly, but they revert back to the same BS games and tactics.

I don't know whether it's because they're no longer attracted to me (I'm willing to accept this as the reason first and foremost); if it's them putting up their anti-slvt defense; or if they want to "start over"?
 

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Do these girls sleep around alot though (with several guys)? I'm guessing they do. I only say this because girls behaving like this after having ONS with you want to keep their options open to continue having fun (if you want to call it that). It keeps you at bay and from her getting attached. These girls probably have a mindset in that if they're going to do the deed and give it up frequently without any courting, then that's all it's every gonna be and there should be no attachment.

I'm also guessing you're not the jerk type at all (loud and obnoxious). It seems to me many of them doing this end up in short-terms with these types of guys after sleeping around awhile in between said relationships.
 
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