"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ignoring a woman (in all areas) is the only way to get her period

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From one extreme to another. I understand not to give a girl too much attention. That's obvious, BUT:

Ignoring girls is great, but won't get you results unless she has a high enough interest in you. I've see a fair number of these threads where the concept is ignore the women and they'll run to you. It's annoying.

Sure the game would be changed overnight if all men ignored all women. But it won't happen. And besides, not all men are attractive. If a girl is to talk with a hot guy and ugly guy, and neither gives her attention, hot guy wins.

So you have to try eventually. Ignoring and giving little attention is only part of the puzzle. We all can't ignore women entirely and then a group of Victoria's Secret Angels will let us destroy their vaginas a week later. Guys that give attention for free are a dime a dozen, and every girl's iphone has numbers for this purpose.

Your value brings results.
Your catchphrase line in blue at the bottom made me bust a gut laughing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The point of me telling that story is, staying ahead of a woman. She expect you to give her attention, She expect you to chase her but as a man you don't have too.

As a man, in your dna you was design to think ahead of a woman, it's not impossible.
I asked my therapist about this last year, about how to think ahead of the woman...He assured me it isn't possible. They just think differently, period.
 

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I asked my therapist about this last year, about how to think ahead of the woman...He assured me it isn't possible. They just think differently, period.
What is possible though, is to stay ahead of yourself and to have authority on yourself.
 

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These are basic push-pull tactics the OP is discussing. DJing 101.

Take it further.

- Create initial interest through your first interaction.
- Pull away and ignore.
- Start talking to her less attractive friend.
- Pull away again and ignore.
- 2nd interaction and escalation
- Pull away and ignore
- Really flirt with her friend like you are old buddies
- Pull away ignore
- 3rd interaction and escalation
- Pull away
- Go talk to a different less attractive girl. Fvck it can even be Grandma sitting in the corner.
- Repeat, repeat, repeat

You can do this forever basically. Even right up to the point you have her naked on the bed and about to insert your peen. "Oh wait a minute, I'm thirsty I need some water. I'll be right back." It drives them fvcking nuts and is exactly what draws them to you.

Anyone who tells you that she will just get attention from some other guy is lost in the mind games of women. Those guys she is getting attention from get the same sh!tty treatment as most guys get. They get nothing but frustration with little bits of hope thrown in. Why would you want to be one of those guys chasing women.

Women WANT to chase men. You need to have bait (looks, charm, value). You need to set the hook (positive interaction). You need to reel in your line a bit (pull away let her chase). You need to let her nibble a bit to get the taste (more positive interaction). Then reel in your line a bit more (pull away again). You need to fish in the right pond. (don't waste your time dangling your hook in front of women who aren't responding positively).

This is basic basic stuff that 90% of the guys out there completely fail on. That is exactly WHY it works. It makes you different than the rest. It gets you noticed. Even guys who do have it figured out eventually fail because once things escalate to a certain level they start thinking with their d!cks and lose their cool. It's just pvssy gentlemen. You'll be bathing in it if you can show that you are interested in it but you don't NEED it.
 
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These are basic push-pull tactics the OP is discussing. DJing 101.

Take it further.

- Create initial interest through your first interaction.
- Pull away and ignore.
- Start talking to her less attractive friend.
- Pull away again and ignore.
- 2nd interaction and escalation
- Pull away and ignore
- Really flirt with her friend like you are old buddies
- Pull away ignore
- 3rd interaction and escalation
- Pull away
- Go talk to a different less attractive girl. Fvck it can even be Grandma sitting in the corner.
- Repeat, repeat, repeat

You can do this forever basically. Even right up to the point you have her naked on the bed and about to insert your peen. "Oh wait a minute, I'm thirsty I need some water. I'll be right back." It drives them fvcking nuts and is exactly what draws them to you.

Anyone who tells you that she will just get attention from some other guy is lost in the mind games of women. Those guys she is getting attention from get the same sh!tty treatment as most guys get. They get nothing but frustration with little bits of hope thrown in. Why would you want to be one of those guys chasing women.

Women WANT to chase men. You need to have bait (looks, charm, value). You need to set the hook (positive interaction). You need to reel in your line a bit (pull away let her chase). You need to let her nibble a bit to get the taste (more positive interaction). Then reel in your line a bit more (pull away again). You need to fish in the right pond. (don't waste your time dangling your hook in front of women who aren't responding positively).

This is basic basic stuff that 90% of the guys out there completely fail on. That is exactly WHY it works. It makes you different than the rest. It gets you noticed. Even guys who do have it figured out eventually fail because once things escalate to a certain level they start thinking with their d!cks and lose their cool. It's just pvssy gentlemen. You'll be bathing in it if you can show that you are interested in it but you don't NEED it.
But If you flat out ignore her she Will just get attention from another guy.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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