"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Devilish_Nitro

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Hi

Just wondering an what you guys thought about women who ignore messages or calls.

Last week got together with this girl and seem to do ok i.e got off with her at the end of the night. Anyway we made plans to see each other this weekend.

She didn't phone me or owt yesturday which was expected. Sent her a message asking if she was still up for going out.

*Now I know I should of just called her and I realise this now but Im still learning this game :)*

She hasn't sent one back and its been over a day now. Im just wondering, shall I leave it untill she gets in contact with me and keep the ball in her court or should I pick up the phone and give her one last call.

Ive played it cool with the one message and not seeming desperate with other calls or messages. Should I next her if she doesn't get back to me today?

Thanks :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Devilish_Nitro

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Hehe I guess its been one day but I actually made plans to see on the weekend last Monday!

Thought nothing of it yesturday becuase its saturday and everyones usually shopping and clubbing etc...

I guess if she was interested she would of text me back by now. I know she got the message becuase I got the delivery report back.

Im gonna go down the gym in a bit if she don't call. Can't wait around all day for her. I don't know if to call her one last time before I go out or just leave it and if she calls me tough luck :confused:

"Where you ailing from anywayz"

I haven't heard that saying before but if you mean where im from, im from the sunny lands of staffordshire in uk :)
 

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"Good Luck with the girl"

Hehe cheers but I think my luck has gone...

Decided to phone her so I knew what was going on. No answer...thought to myself, sod it. I heard from my mate that there isn't many land lines in the region that she lives in. So thinking she might not have credit on the phone and missed the call, i called her again and it still rung out.

Well thats it, Im off down the gym, can't hang around.

Cheers for the help The_Shezzler
 

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Originally posted by Devilish_Nitro
She didn't phone me or owt yesturday which was expected. Sent her a message asking if she was still up for going out.

*Now I know I should of just called her and I realise this now but Im still learning this game :)* [/B]
The problem with messages is the confirmation. Who knows, she might not find the charger for her phone etc. What is even worse is if she suddenly sees 3 messages with increasing desparation :p
 
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