"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jariel

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Don't respond to any of their threads. Add them to your ignore list. Just don't give them any acknowledgement.

Trolls are lonely people who need attention. Even negative attention is better than no attention and that's why they try to piss people off. Just ignore them and they'll realise that all their hard work filling the forums and all the time wasted as all been in vain.


IGNORE THEM!!!


When you start replying to a troll, he drags you to his level has you wasting YOUR time!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jariel said:
Don't respond to any of their threads. Add them to your ignore list. Just don't give them any acknowledgement.

Trolls are lonely people who need attention. Even negative attention is better than no attention and that's why they try to piss people off. Just ignore them and they'll realise that all their hard work filling the forums and all the time wasted as all been in vain.


IGNORE THEM!!!

The problem with a forum of this nature is that some people are people who really need serious help.......I would class the time wasters in this group. Spending all their time posting on a forum to try and annoy others. It has to be as low as you can go.
 

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I have them on my ignore list so I don't see what they type. It takes a bit more time sifting through their threads but it's not really a big deal as long as I'm not wasting my time replying.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ignore any guy that hasnt been here for at least a year.

Also ignore the know it all new guys that do nothing but post *****. -- You know who you are! --
 

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YEA u need to be a member of sosuave for at least a year to be credible with chicks - wat ****in stupid logic
 
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Get lifes seriously all of YOU who the f*ck takes the internet seriously.So what if me or anyother troll person is posting bullsh*t making pointless threads SO
WHAT.ITS THE F*CKEN INTERNET!!!if you take this forum seriously come on man,thats the problem first of all read the advice on this forum for 10minutes go out in real life!!me as a troll i love playing around on here for fun when I have nothing to do.Come on guys this is the internet nothing but typed words who cares!!!
 

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SKIP:

Not exactly, but alot of the new guys are either severly pathetic, or self-aggrandizing post *****s.

The 2006 class of DJ members have been awful, but I do get more laughs from reading the forum now days.
 

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Get lifes seriously all of YOU who the f*ck takes the internet seriously.So what if me or anyother troll person is posting bullsh*t making pointless threads SO
WHAT.ITS THE F*CKEN INTERNET!!!if you take this forum seriously come on man,thats the problem first of all read the advice on this forum for 10minutes go out in real life!!me as a troll i love playing around on here for fun when I have nothing to do.Come on guys this is the internet nothing but typed words who cares!!!
You are wrong!

That's like saying don't take books seriously they're only words. But books have changed the world!!

I read in another thread by desdinova I think who said a guy came here about to commit suicide and got help. This is the internet yes but its a place where guys can get help for serious problems.

Why dont you go invade some AA meetings or drug rehab centres and tell them theyre all losers!

Oh and for a guy who has a mission to troll an internet forum you are in no position to tell anyone to get a life!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jariel said:
Don't respond to any of their threads. Add them to your ignore list. Just don't give them any acknowledgement.

Trolls are lonely people who need attention. Even negative attention is better than no attention and that's why they try to piss people off. Just ignore them and they'll realise that all their hard work filling the forums and all the time wasted as all been in vain.


IGNORE THEM!!!


When you start replying to a troll, he drags you to his level has you wasting YOUR time!
This is great advice except that you yourself have responded to a trolls thread in recent times, most of your posts are great to read though. :yes:
 

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SELF-MASTERY said:
Ignore any guy that hasnt been here for at least a year.
Mastery,

As a 2006-er, I am disheartened to know that I'll have to wait an entire year before you read any of my posts.

Just like talking to myself, I guess. Nearly akin to solitary confinement.

Aww, sh*t. Damn the trolls.
 

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Jariel said:
Don't respond to any of their threads. Add them to your ignore list. Just don't give them any acknowledgement.

Trolls are lonely people who need attention. Even negative attention is better than no attention and that's why they try to piss people off. Just ignore them and they'll realise that all their hard work filling the forums and all the time wasted as all been in vain.


IGNORE THEM!!!


When you start replying to a troll, he drags you to his level has you wasting YOUR time!
Lol. Troll.
 

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SELF-MASTERY said "Ignore any guy that hasnt been here for at least a year."

Bummer: I'm so old I could die by next year.

Whatever happened to the concept of judging someone by the content and quality of their thoughts and not superficial preset assumptions? Crap, used to many self-aggrandizing (big) words again.
 

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jariel, the trolls r getting offended that u posted this!

wtf we definitely gotta ignore all trolls and losers who r just ****ing around and focus on askin/answerin questions about women and dating, giving advice/field reports, and discussing theories!! this sosuave discussion forum does not need ANYTHING else but those things, that was the whole point of this place in the first place

the point was NOT to call each other fake, to flame around for no reason, to make useless idiotic threads, ect....the POINT was to do wat i had just said above!

agreed everyone?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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grinder said:
SELF-MASTERY said "Ignore any guy that hasnt been here for at least a year."

Bummer: I'm so old I could die by next year.
Ha, ha. Hopefully not…

But seriously, I was only being light hearted in my previous comment. I’m certian that SELF-MASTERY meant 'ignore' in reasonable context / with good judgment.
 

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Ha, ha. Hopefully not…

But seriously, I was only being light hearted in my previous comment. I’m certian that SELF-MASTERY meant 'ignore' in reasonable context / with good judgment.
exactly:)
 

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My view

I feel what is happening is people are telling you how to get women and do this and that. When the best stuff EVER written is in the dj bible.

We are really taking something that was easy and turning it into hard.

My journal tips have been moved because, what is the point of having journal tips when no one is in the field.

I feel that if you have become better with women to the point were causing attarction is too easy. Then stay in the field and not to this fourm. This fourm here for 1 reason and 1 reason only.

To Get Women

I see stupid questions being asked over and over again. Just written different. These questions like,

Should you apporach a girl with another guy with her ?

How do you get laid ?

Have been already answered in the dj bible and other good stuff like DYD and mystery and more.

This site was about becoming a real man, you would leave this fourm to go into the real world to APPLY what you learned.

Now it is a fourm where people come to brag, look cool, try to become famous and lie.

I have become a better man thanks to this website, however you will never become a real man sitting around on this fourm.
You become a real man by applying.
 

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Blackdragon5095 said:
I feel what is happening is people are telling you how to get women and do this and that. When the best stuff EVER written is in the dj bible.

We are really taking something that was easy and turning it into hard.

My journal tips have been moved because, what is the point of having journal tips when no one is in the field.

I feel that if you have become better with women to the point were causing attarction is too easy. Then stay in the field and not to this fourm. This fourm here for 1 reason and 1 reason only.

To Get Women

I see stupid questions being asked over and over again. Just written different. These questions like,

Should you apporach a girl with another guy with her ?

How do you get laid ?

Have been already answered in the dj bible and other good stuff like DYD and mystery and more.

This site was about becoming a real man, you would leave this fourm to go into the real world to APPLY what you learned.

Now it is a fourm where people come to brag, look cool, try to become famous and lie.

I have become a better man thanks to this website, however you will never become a real man sitting around on this fourm.
You become a real man by applying.

It seems like you are stereotyping all the members of this forum. I am here purely to help people out, I had a lot of help from guys like POOK back in the day and now I feel it is my duty to help guys. I have been out and applied everything in the field now I am content with my sex life.

There are people in this forum that need help, there are people who need help and then there are KBJ and trolls, sadly the people that really need this site and the people that are trying to help are in the minority.
 

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Get lifes seriously all of YOU who the f*ck takes the internet seriously.So what if me or anyother troll person is posting bullsh*t making pointless threads SO
WHAT.ITS THE F*CKEN INTERNET!!!if you take this forum seriously come on man,thats the problem first of all read the advice on this forum for 10minutes go out in real life!!me as a troll i love playing around on here for fun when I have nothing to do.Come on guys this is the internet nothing but typed words who cares!!!

Suck my c0ck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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