"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ignore Function for the forums?

ObieJuan

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Seriously- can we get an ignore function? There are some repetitive posts by some morons here that I'd like to see disappear when I browse the forums. There are a lot of trolls who would stop posting if we didn't have to see their posts and feel the need to respond to them. What's worse is having so-called "Master" Don Juans insulting other members by giving back-handed advise. I like this site and I think there are people here who are genuinely interested in helping people instead of trying to boost their egos. I'm not sure where to post this message so I'm putting it in this forum. Thoughts/flames are welcome :rock:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DDevil

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How does it work? Can you start a thread and people on your list cannot post in it?
 
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