SoSuaveDude
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are most women age 25+ really harder to reel in?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ignorant rejection or attention seeking?
- Thread starter Jariel
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
THIS ^Johnnyventana said:
I really hate giving girls satisfaction like that. I never do. I just ignore. Speaking of deleting facebook friends, I did it recently to two girls who were wasting my time - They get majorly pissed at me and I just laugh . HAVE SOME OF YOUR OWN MEDICINE B!TCHES
Holy **** yes that's true. I remember when I was 15 up to 20 I had girls all over me and I didn't even have to do anything !! I'm serious. I had girls asking for my number. Literally throwing themselves at me. It was so much easier back then to get a girl. I wish I could go back. I'd fuk them all!!! (had high standards back then, too high)Robert28 said:
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How about you get in touch with her and take her out.
JdelaSilviera
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lol Jariel, she is just crazy. I don´t think she would have kissed you if she didn´t felt attracted. What happens, is that women can´t stand waiting for a guy´s text, I hope that some of you had done this experiment of not answering a women text... they just go nuts, and they can do stupid stuff like that.
You don´t want to be dating a girl like that, so although I don´t think that is a kind of rejection, although she might want you to think so, since she felt rejected by not receiving an instant text after the date, just ignore her.. really.
You don´t want to be dating a girl like that, so although I don´t think that is a kind of rejection, although she might want you to think so, since she felt rejected by not receiving an instant text after the date, just ignore her.. really.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
JdelaSilviera
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Also why would women flake more 25+, if they are no longer nearly as attractive.... biology screws them hard..
The truth is that most women are ugly...they can cover it up with a nice body and make up while they are very young 18-21. But after that they just go downhill all the way.. with so few quality women (looks+smarts+values) I wonder if should even bother looking for a lifetime partner.
These girls are just too spoiled, men are always staring and smiling at them like they have seen the queen of Egypt.
From my experience most women are ugly, dumb and out of shape, and once in a blue moon you find a perfect girl. The crazy female behaviour, is just typical of people with lower IQ´s... you see that in less intelligent men..
In evolution standards, men have to be more fit and smart to be selected.. while women can become wales since their genes will always passed on due to man crazy desire for sex..
The truth is that most women are ugly...they can cover it up with a nice body and make up while they are very young 18-21. But after that they just go downhill all the way.. with so few quality women (looks+smarts+values) I wonder if should even bother looking for a lifetime partner.
These girls are just too spoiled, men are always staring and smiling at them like they have seen the queen of Egypt.
From my experience most women are ugly, dumb and out of shape, and once in a blue moon you find a perfect girl. The crazy female behaviour, is just typical of people with lower IQ´s... you see that in less intelligent men..
In evolution standards, men have to be more fit and smart to be selected.. while women can become wales since their genes will always passed on due to man crazy desire for sex..
Thanks for the replies. I've reached the conclusion I need to be ruthless with chicks like this and next them as soon as I spot their games or other such redflags.
We had a great date, we had a real connection, both mental and sexual, but women like this are always surrounded by drama and are too much hard work.
I have a date with a girl this week who seems a lot more stable.
We had a great date, we had a real connection, both mental and sexual, but women like this are always surrounded by drama and are too much hard work.
I have a date with a girl this week who seems a lot more stable.
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There's a lot of truth in this here thread. It's kind of strange how we all go through the exact same problems. Probably how we ended up here. Ha ha.
This girl told you straight away that she likes to be chased, and is stubborn. That basically means she's high maintenance and stuck up. She's going to keep playing crap games to gain all the control, and is most certainly a taker who expects everyone else to do the work - while she decides who is good enough for her. If it doesn't happen - she'll probably complain and claim everyone is selfish. Sounds like a spoiled *****.
Stubborn women are no good. They lure you in to get you to chase them, and do all the work. They don't give or reciprocate. Mostly come with a strong sense of entitlement. Don't listen to reason, and just keep going their own way. Not worth it at all.
You made a good choice on not chasing, and paying attention to what she said to you. Most people just shrug this stuff off, make up excuses for them, try to go against the grain, and chase away - only to complain down the line, about the same things they knew about all along.
This girl told you straight away that she likes to be chased, and is stubborn. That basically means she's high maintenance and stuck up. She's going to keep playing crap games to gain all the control, and is most certainly a taker who expects everyone else to do the work - while she decides who is good enough for her. If it doesn't happen - she'll probably complain and claim everyone is selfish. Sounds like a spoiled *****.
Stubborn women are no good. They lure you in to get you to chase them, and do all the work. They don't give or reciprocate. Mostly come with a strong sense of entitlement. Don't listen to reason, and just keep going their own way. Not worth it at all.
You made a good choice on not chasing, and paying attention to what she said to you. Most people just shrug this stuff off, make up excuses for them, try to go against the grain, and chase away - only to complain down the line, about the same things they knew about all along.
I agree floydb25. As Doc Love says, Attitude is the second most important thing to her Interest Level. You can't rewire them.
Some girls are always smiling, even on bad days. Other girls are always scowling, even on good days.
The worst thing you can possibly attempt is to change them.
Some girls are always smiling, even on bad days. Other girls are always scowling, even on good days.
The worst thing you can possibly attempt is to change them.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Depends on what kind of women you chase after, and who you associate yourself with. I used to think all girls were a certain way (ie, trash), but its just the ones I associated with. The hot, stuck up ones. Or the bitter, damaged, crazy ones. Or, [insert trashy woman here]. When all you associate with is a certain kind of person - be it friends, lovers, or anything else inbetween - that's how you view everyone as being. And, this gets dumped onto you. A miserable person makes you miserable, for instance. Getting played by 10 *****s makes you believe all women are *****s. But, its only this kind of person that does these things.Robert28 said:
I used to befriend nothing but douche bags / *******s, and would date *****es / *****s left and right... It ****ed up my perspectives big time; I thought everyone was horrible, and the same way; and started hating everyone - until realizing what was going on, and making the changes necessary.
I always say, just because something is familiar - doesn't mean its good. You stop obsessing over losers when you no longer invite them into your life. That's really how the vicious cycle starts, and how you keep repeating the same unhealthy process over and over. If that's all you see - that's all you will get.