"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If you're ugly, make some money!
- Thread starter Luveno
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
seabreeze
Master Don Juan
No, no, no. There's no such thing as an ugly man. Every man has something attractive about him. I seriously hate that word "ugly."
Seabreeze
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m4a1
Senior Don Juan
hey whatsup seabreeze?
anyway.. if you're ugly.. you need to be tough. It makes up for a lot. Look at Mike Tyson for example.
anyway.. if you're ugly.. you need to be tough. It makes up for a lot. Look at Mike Tyson for example.
Matt Rogers
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Well, if you read the article carefully it says that women will marry you for your money and status but for relationships physical attributes are key.
Interestingly the article seems to think that girls go far more for physique than facial attractiveness. Now EVERY man can get a good physique with hard work (maybe not Men's Health, but certainly a hard and toned body).
My personal theory is that women go for masculinity-the masculine guys are the men who get laid. As m4a1 said "the tough guys". If you act tough and look tough chances are unless you are seriously ugly you will get some good women.
If you are stuck with rather effeminate looks like I am that presents a problem, but I am finding the more muscular I get the coarser and more masculine my features become.
Interestingly the article seems to think that girls go far more for physique than facial attractiveness. Now EVERY man can get a good physique with hard work (maybe not Men's Health, but certainly a hard and toned body).
My personal theory is that women go for masculinity-the masculine guys are the men who get laid. As m4a1 said "the tough guys". If you act tough and look tough chances are unless you are seriously ugly you will get some good women.
If you are stuck with rather effeminate looks like I am that presents a problem, but I am finding the more muscular I get the coarser and more masculine my features become.