“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If you're holding a beer at a party or while standing up
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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Amazing; I do believe that it shows more Relaxed/calm body language, since holding it by your chest, makes you look more tense
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I prefer to hold it up to my chest, this position is more active and assertive, more extraverted. I associate it with a "Ready for action!" or "Bring it on!" attitude.
Holding it down to your side, however, makes me you look more passive and introverted. It's the same as with standing with your hands in your pockets, it shows a certain dullness.
Of course, it's not just about where you put your drink, your whole body comes into play when we're talking about sending out a certain message by body language. I think you can look confident in both positions, depending on the rest of your body. Still, when I think of a spontaneous 'center of the party' guy, I'd sooner imagine him with his drink up his chest than down to his side.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.