“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if you're good looking

Brian Griffin

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don't bother with trying to act all tough and ****y. that's for the guys who are ugly and can't get chicks.

anybody who tells you different is an idiot.

if you're good looking, be a nice, cool guy and you'll get laid plenty.
 

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Tough and ****y, no. You don't have to be an azzhole. The whole reasoning behind C+F is lots more Funny than ****y. That's my understanding of it anyway, and I've used it to much success.

The idea is, if you're only funny, than you'll end up as the dancing monkey. If you're only ****y, then you're just an arrogant prick. You have to be like 70% funny, 30% ****y. Just enough to keep them guessing.
 

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Be 100% of what you strive to be.
 

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I actually posted a thread something similar to this. Yea, you know if you're good looking if you try to act arrogant/****y and it just doesnt seem to work out. Don't necessarily be too nice but sure as hell be FUNNY and of course confident.
 

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If you're good looking you can act how you want. Girls are as superficial as guys.
 

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As for being funny - It definately does help, however you can be seen as a friend and non-sexual too easy, so you have to make sure that if you aren't getting anything from her... move on as you are wasting your time and she's just using you for entertainment.
 

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There's a guy with whom I go to school who is like 6'5, and I have dated a couple of girls who said they liked him until they found out how clingy he is with women. I'll see him talk to a new girl, and she is all smiles. But then within a week or two, that same girl will obviously be avoiding him.

Looks might get you in the door, but you need skills to close the deal.
 

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d9930380 said:
If you're good looking you can act how you want. Girls are as superficial as guys.
Ummm....not quite. At my university there's plenty of good looking guys on my football team that are complete AFC's (I've seen them in clubs, bars and just out and about in the daytime) or have ugly/fat g/fs. Then there'e some average guys (aka me :D) who do pretty well for themselves.

Don't make generalisations based on opinions you have formed (probably with little evidence to back them up).

This applies to the thread starter as well.

Pointless thread.
 

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Ace of Flames said:
Tough and ****y, no. You don't have to be an azzhole. The whole reasoning behind C+F is lots more Funny than ****y. That's my understanding of it anyway, and I've used it to much success.

The idea is, if you're only funny, than you'll end up as the dancing monkey. If you're only ****y, then you're just an arrogant prick. You have to be like 70% funny, 30% ****y. Just enough to keep them guessing.

This is what ticks me off 70% this 30% that. How are we on the spot meant to work it out. Howabout just act how you are and learn from mistakes. You can calculate in the situation but it wil take a while and wreck the jokes flow. I always crack **** jokes but i crack funnier jokes then most people too.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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ture, by average looking chicks. if you wanna pull 9 and 10s better have some game. because they a have so many options. and mostly they go for money. "says an idiot" i guess..
True... at least in NY


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Brian Griffin said:
don't bother with trying to act all tough and ****y. that's for the guys who are ugly and can't get chicks.

anybody who tells you different is an idiot.

if you're good looking, be a nice, cool guy and you'll get laid plenty.
I think your wrong nice guys usually finish last. I am a very good looking guy and was always ****y and confident and never gave a fvck. I was very successful with girls. Up until 2 years ago when I hit 28. These last 2 years I have been the nicest guy to find the right girl and treat them with respect. These have been the worst years of my life as far as woman go. Woman like *******s they will never admit it but it is true.
 

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This is actually great advice, and something I wish I had learned a long long time ago..

As it was finally explained to me by a friend:

"You see, I am good looking. So people arleady think I am better than them. And if I act like an ******* or give them ****, they automatically think I am a stuck up jerk."

It's just like when you see a very hot chick. And then she does something slightly rude or arrogant and you say "Wow, she is a B1tch!" Same concept.


So yeah, i'm trying to be nice right now. And it is very, very, very hard
 

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^ ^ I'm a good looking guy (haha)

I've noticed I can be genuine more often than not, just walk up to a comparable female of 7 or 8 status and just ask them out on the spot and usually get good results...

If you see a woman of equal looks status try this out and tell me how it goes...

YOU: Excuse me, I noticed you over here and, forgive me if i'm being too forward, but I'd like to ask you out for coffee... interested ?
If I generally am feeling good about myself its worked out more often than not and saves alot of the fluff that I used to do. No CnF, no games, just ask and then set it up... pretty simple


-Cod3r
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Brian Griffin said:
Just because people are on this forum doesn't mean they have to be ugly.
Strangely enough every time there's a picture thread it's full of a bunch of funny looking douche bags.

I'm not joking. I've yet to see an actual attractive guy post his picture. All the ones posted range from ugly to "some normal guy" with the guy claiming to be a 7 or 8 when they're really 5 or 6s.
 

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Wrong. I'm nice to a lot of girls and they melt in my hands.

You think you have to be good looking AND famous for NICE to work? What kind of dumbass are you?
 

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I think you guys are missing the boat. You can be nice and have game.

Do you know what game is?

It's one word.

Confidence.

Not ****y, not arrogance, etc.

It's confidence.

C&F should mean Confidence and Humor C&H
 

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mrRuckus said:
Strangely enough every time there's a picture thread it's full of a bunch of funny looking douche bags.

I'm not joking. I've yet to see an actual attractive guy post his picture. All the ones posted range from ugly to "some normal guy" with the guy claiming to be a 7 or 8 when they're really 5 or 6s.
Yo I don't analyse guys looks but it's true there aren't that many good looking guys around here.A lot of guys have no idea that they are average.Everyone thinks they are good looking and has an inflated sense of self.
 
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