If youre good looking, well dressed and confident can you go to a club alone?

[The Immortal]

My friend sitting right with me is arguing tooth and nail with me. hes a good looking guy, a confident guy too, but hes never been to a club alone and says he thinks everyone will think he is weird if he goes.

i happen to disagree, but he wont listen to me, so i turn to you guys to convince him. What do you think about going to a club solo?

 

[Energizer]

I've been one holiday on my own for two weeks. I went to clubs there on my own. It's all about confidence, plenty of people go to clubs on their own and many people lose their mates in a club and are left on their own.

Your mate just needs to go in, stand by the bar with a drink, scan his horizons, find a sexy woman who is on here lonesome and bomb straight over there. Then he won't be on his own will he?

Here is an idea -- why don't you go to the club with him and go your separate ways and then see if it works for you as well? That way, he isn't on his own and neither are you. If he hates it, he can always find you.

 

[Poonani Maker]

If there's a band, or chicks dancing on the bar, then going alone is not that hard at all. If the venue is strictly a social one, with no show or dancing to observe, then going alone is harder, unless you can sit at the bar and watch TV, etc.

And yes, being good-looking, confident, is a given Anywhere, so improve yourself as a man should always, on his own, away from women. Find something or several things you're really passionate about outside of women.

Be able to stand alone. I have no problem, because I've accomplished a lot of sh!t, and been a lot of places no one's ever been, done what not many has ever done, some pretty scary fvckin sh!t. I can look at another man and SEE if he might deserve my respect, and vice versa, he can look at me and nod with respect towards me, just on looks Alone.

 

[CaliGuyInLondon]

it can be done. but he has a point, unless you have some serious game and more importantly some serious confidence, its pretty ****ing hard.

or get trashed. its halloween so his odds are good.

just tell him to drop the FTC, i cant stay long gotta go meet up with my friend. they're not gonna know if he's alone or not.

 

[HolyTrinity]

honestly i think going to a club alone is the easiest way to get a girl i can even think of, maybe its because i am quite physically attractive(im humble but alot of girls told me i am very good looking). i dont understand the concept of having a buddy with me while im trying for a girl, i feel like it would make my chances of getting any even less.

i personally like to do a little bit of drugs before i got to the club alone, a slightly high dose of amphetamines has been my favorite recently . (im prescribed amphetamines for adhd and yes i know most of you won't/dont agree w/ drugs) doesn't really matter what drug it is to me aslong as it runs the shy/self conscious out of my brain.

anyway from there, talking to women is easy. i only sit/stand at the bar and talk to the girls. if im feelin real good i just keep approaching every single girl i find i am attracted to, and try to start a conversation with every one of them. of course more than likely most will reject me, thats just the name of the game. eventually luck always hits me though when im at the club just gotta be persistent/patient in talkin to the honey's at the bar.

honestly dont see how guys pick up girls easier at school or grocery store and what not. most the ladies that are in these places dont usually even have there mindset on getting a man, they're there for business which makes it harder to gain the interest. alot of the times when women go to a nightclub they are looking for the exact same thing the guys there are looking for. they want some of that -- for their -- im sure you get the picture