"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If you're a recovering AFC and don't really have "other girls" waiting, make 'em up?

Lexington

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Always have a bunch of female friends on hand so that you can make it seem as though you've got something going on. If you have to tell her you have someone else, she'll know you're probably full of ****. Just make sure that you're always seen with girls. It's not very hard to get platonic female friends. It's mutually beneficial....they get all the advantages of having a guy around and you get social proof.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jc.dunn

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What's the point of learning to be a Don Juan if its all fake? Enough with lying. The whole point is to get girls to like you for you, regardless of what you want from them. Lying is for the weak. So stop.
 
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