"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If your having trouble STARTING to approach,try this!

619joe

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Now just so you know,I dont really approach much.Not much time and I dont really devote my life to approaching either.I know how to game naturally so I dont really worry about it much.

For the longest time Ive wondered what the best way was to get yourself motivated to approach. Be with a friend to get you motivated?Listen to some music?Be by yourself and "in the zone"?

Then it hit me like a slippery fish.Well not really since I remember reading it here or on MM forums.MONEY!

If I need to make an approach,Ill give whatever friend is beside me some money.Whether its $2 or maybe $5-$20,it doesnt matter.Theres variations to the game but I like to give them an amount of money and tell them if I dont approach,they can keep it.

Why this works for ME so much is because Im a big money saver and I HATE to waste money most of the time.If I have money on the line that I could use to buy a drink or food or any random stuff,I dont want that money to go to waste (my friend haha).Now I realise for most of my approaches,Ive used this technique but also varying it up (my first approach was a bet for a punch in the arm).

Then I get into like military mode where Im like "F*** (insert friends name).That bastard isnt gonna get to keep my money if I have anything to do with it."

So try it out the next time.It REALLY helps.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Aragon034

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It works. Money is a huge motivation for people.

I forget who, but he was tired of yo-yo diets and finally, he got his lawyer to draft an agreement for him that if he didn't lose 75lbs in one year, he'd donate twenty thousand dollars (that's $20000) to the American Nazy Party.

You better believe he lost those 75 pounds!

I think it's a unique tip for those who have trouble approaching. having a motivation that's as tangible as cold hard cash keeps them focused.
 

daygameguy

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Aragon034 said:
It works. Money is a huge motivation for people.
lol made me think of Kenny from SP.
 

Nexus Polaris

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Brilliant. I'm totally going to do that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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619joe

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Haha WOW that is an extreme story but inspirational nonetheless.

This also is alot of fun too and after you eventually need not to bet any money but then you realise that any time the stakes are high,everything is just THAT much more intense lmao.
 

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For those of us who are broke we can use the kick in balls punishment.
You don't approach you get a kick in the jewels.
Believe me, you'll even approach the cheerleader surrounded by 10 football players
 
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