"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If your having trouble STARTING to approach,try this!

619joe

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Now just so you know,I dont really approach much.Not much time and I dont really devote my life to approaching either.I know how to game naturally so I dont really worry about it much.

For the longest time Ive wondered what the best way was to get yourself motivated to approach. Be with a friend to get you motivated?Listen to some music?Be by yourself and "in the zone"?

Then it hit me like a slippery fish.Well not really since I remember reading it here or on MM forums.MONEY!

If I need to make an approach,Ill give whatever friend is beside me some money.Whether its $2 or maybe $5-$20,it doesnt matter.Theres variations to the game but I like to give them an amount of money and tell them if I dont approach,they can keep it.

Why this works for ME so much is because Im a big money saver and I HATE to waste money most of the time.If I have money on the line that I could use to buy a drink or food or any random stuff,I dont want that money to go to waste (my friend haha).Now I realise for most of my approaches,Ive used this technique but also varying it up (my first approach was a bet for a punch in the arm).

Then I get into like military mode where Im like "F*** (insert friends name).That bastard isnt gonna get to keep my money if I have anything to do with it."

So try it out the next time.It REALLY helps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It works. Money is a huge motivation for people.

I forget who, but he was tired of yo-yo diets and finally, he got his lawyer to draft an agreement for him that if he didn't lose 75lbs in one year, he'd donate twenty thousand dollars (that's $20000) to the American Nazy Party.

You better believe he lost those 75 pounds!

I think it's a unique tip for those who have trouble approaching. having a motivation that's as tangible as cold hard cash keeps them focused.
 

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Aragon034 said:
It works. Money is a huge motivation for people.
lol made me think of Kenny from SP.
 

Nexus Polaris

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Brilliant. I'm totally going to do that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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619joe

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Haha WOW that is an extreme story but inspirational nonetheless.

This also is alot of fun too and after you eventually need not to bet any money but then you realise that any time the stakes are high,everything is just THAT much more intense lmao.
 

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For those of us who are broke we can use the kick in balls punishment.
You don't approach you get a kick in the jewels.
Believe me, you'll even approach the cheerleader surrounded by 10 football players
 
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