If your focus is on women, you will fail at everything

[Trump]

I notice too many guys, especially the youngsters too caught up in women and nothing else. If you don't believe my words just sit back and ponder all your efforts you have put into a woman, all the energy of thinking about a certain girl.

The roles of a man and a woman have changed. Women focus on other things because they know the guys will chase them. What happen to the days when men focus on their careers and goals because they knew the woman will chase them?

It is high time for all of us to break out of this failure cycle of chasing women, of chasing the dangerous thing called a vagina. Successful men have no worry or focus on women because they know women come regardless because it is in a woman nature or should I say magnetic attraction to men who have things going for them or successful men.

Right now you are nothing, you have nothing to offer to the planet. You are wasting away energy when you can use those thoughts to bring forth something great to the world or to others instead of thinking of some woman who cares nothing for you because her phone are full of prospects.

The issue being the public values a guy with a regular job, regular wage, wife and 3 kids more than a rich guy who is accomplished, proud and makes decent living but doesn't know how to attract the opposite sex.

Focus on yourself, but don't expect girls to come running once you think you have your career, house, and nice car. If anything, they will just want you for your money at that age. Don't think they will fall madly in love with you because you worked so hard to be accomplished. THEY CARE LESS HOW HARD YOU HAVE WORKED.:rock:

 

[JaegerPilot217]

The issue being the public values a guy with a regular job, regular wage, wife and 3 kids more than a rich guy who is accomplished, proud and makes decent living but doesn't know how to attract the opposite sex.

Focus on yourself, but don't expect girls to come running once you think you have your career, house, and nice car. If anything, they will just want you for your money at that age. Don't think they will fall madly in love with you because you worked so hard to be accomplished. THEY CARE LESS HOW HARD YOU HAVE WORKED.:rock:

That makes more sense

 

[JaegerPilot217]

I would say when he LOOKS significantly over say 33.

Every female is different, but looking young is key.

Money isn't a total replacement for youth. Hot matters more to a 22 yo chick than $$.

No doubt that a 40 year old businessman has a lot of value. Of course he does.
But it would mean MUCH more to a 28 to 35 woman than a 19 to 23 yo woman. The young one would rather F a tatooed 24 yo bartender than a 40 yo executive.

People value different things at different points in their life.

I would say 18 to 27 year old women is when they are the hottest, most ripe, but with the majority of women in that age range be comfortable dating a man who is old enough to be her Dad?

 

[Mike32ct]

I would say 18 to 27 year old women is when they are the hottest, most ripe, but with the majority of women in that age range be comfortable dating a man who is old enough to be her Dad?

I agree with everything Trump wrote.

Now on to your question...

I think most young (18 to 27 as you listed above) women are VERY age conscious about who they date.

Do some have a thing for older guys? Yes. Maybe 10 percent of them max. Or maybe the older guy looks and acts young so he can pull it off.

There are no 100 percent rules in this game. That's why I hate to generalize.

Overall, youth or appearance of youth matters. From a PURELY getting laid with hot young women perspective, my money is on the young good looking guy. But for dating and sexing slightly more mature but more quality date-able females, my money is on the mature guy with his shyte together.

So yes, improve yourself. But if you have some opportunities to bhang women in your age range, do it while you're young.

Don't waste solid opportunities to score but don't get obsessed with chasing tang either. Like anything in life, it's a compromise.

 

[Fatal Jay]

I wholeheartedly agree with this.

As men, we have essentially become slaves to puss. We aren't happy if we aren't getting any, which leads to further unhappiness.

Many of us will jeopardize our finances and health to get some. It's a downward path.

The one thing that WILL make you happy in life is if you have a passion. I'm really good at public speaking and have excelled at it my whole life. When I'm speaking in front of a crowd, I'm "the man" and very few people are better than me at it.

Some guys are passionate about sports…others, music or writing. Whatever it is, have a FOCUS in life (other than women) and think about it when you wake up and go to bed. This is what ultimately will make you happy.

What we fail to realize, is that even though that chick in the black dress and heels might look pretty, she can in fact bring us great misery. However, your passion will not bring you misery…it will only bring you further happiness.

THIS GUY GETS IT FELLAZ!

eagles eyes nailed it on the head also, especially on ignoring women part. You giving off your energy by giving her attention, women feed off that like vampires.

Learn how to ignore women, especially the hot ones. Yes you know she is hot, but don't give her attention and trust me when you keep working on yourself and your goals, you will become a magnet to any woman you desire, I promise you that.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

THIS GUY GETS IT FELLAZ!

eagles eyes nailed it on the head also, especially on ignoring women part. You giving off your energy by giving her attention, women feed off that like vampires.

Learn how to ignore women, especially the hot ones. Yes you know she is hot, but don't give her attention and trust me when you keep working on yourself and your goals, you will become a magnet to any woman you desire, I promise you that.

And its also a matter of knowing how to ignore women but at the same time not being passive since obviously us guys are still largely expected to approach

 

[adam225]

95% of my posts are about the topic of this thread.

I'll quote myself from a previous post:

That quotation is spot on .

Skinnyguy, nice post .

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Absolutely.

I think great genetics plays a role in that too

 

[Mike32ct]

I think great genetics plays a role in that too

No doubt.

 

[Jack89]

All sound and great points from everyone. As you can see you can't over generalize and the world isn't black and white.

I think the main problem is trying filling that void with things like women and expecting to be satisfied. Whether it be working on yourself in hopes of getting women to fill the void or directly chasing women to fill that void. The only differences is one leaves you better off.

It is also highly possibly to chase women and work on yourself and career there nothing wrong with that just gotta be watch both sides when crossing the street.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

All sound and great points from everyone. As you can see you can't over generalize and the world isn't black and white.

I think the main problem is trying filling that void with things like women and expecting to be satisfied. Whether it be working on yourself in hopes of getting women to fill the void or directly chasing women to fill that void. The only differences is one leaves you better off.

It is also highly possibly to chase women and work on yourself and career there nothing wrong with that just gotta be watch both sides when crossing the street.

Ya I like the sound of that better because obviously women are not gonna approach us guys or ask us out first