"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Of course your "status" would go up in MANY womens eyes. Mo' Money. Mo' Problems. All the women who "rejected" you in the past would most likely 'change their minds' yet try to get knocked up or AFC you into "treating them like a princess" if they didn't try to sue you like they do with every millionaire.

How do you feel winning a huge amount of money would change you in relating to women if at all? And do you think the advice you've been given on sosuave would be helpful or would you run rampant and forget it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Of course your "status" would go up in MANY womens eyes. Mo' Money. Mo' Problems. All the women who "rejected" you in the past would most likely 'change their minds' yet try to get knocked up or AFC you into "treating them like a princess" if they didn't try to sue you like they do with every millionaire.

How do you feel winning a huge amount of money would change you in relating to women if at all? And do you think the advice you've been given on sosuave would be helpful or would you run rampant and forget it?

At this stage of life, I wouldn't want anyone to know. Seriously. I know they would find out and all of my deadbeat family would come out of the woodwork begging. I know women and scammers would come flocking to me. Who knows what anyone will do when faced with that sort of temptation, but I'm naturally a suspicious and conservative person so I'm sure I wouldn't go to wild in the women department, now in the travel department, that would be my weakness. I want to see the world. London, Paris, South Africa, Syndney, Egypt, Japan, Hong Kong.... I'd spend too much money on traveling.
 

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I would play poker for a living. Close my business and then try not to get attached to single moms anymore lol
 

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Everybody on SoSuave.Com gets Free entry, travel, drinks, accomodation and VIP status treatment in my new club called the Coco Bongo. No, you don't get the hired guns. That is more than enough for social value to get your butts in a headstart. I'll deliberately invite the biggest A-list badboys and celeb jerks around for your contest, a night called "LET THE GAMES BEGIN"

I'd love to see Rollo Tomassi in a showdown with Russel Brand.
 

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I would buy myself a few illegals, put them in a giant fish tank with trees and water, and watch them evolve.

Because I can.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Of course your "status" would go up in MANY womens eyes. Mo' Money. Mo' Problems. All the women who "rejected" you in the past would most likely 'change their minds'
Guys get confused about this. They think money / nice car and / or material possessions will solve most or if not all their problems with women.

When women say "they want a rich guy", they DON'T MEAN "I want a guy who has just won the lottery or a guy who just got a large inheritance from an uncle who has passed away". Ideally they want a guy who has AMBITION, who has DRIVE, who has POWER, who can TAKE CARE OF THEM when they need. If you do something with PASSION and LOVE and it gives back to people, the money will come, along with the women.

Money and girls are BYPRODUCTS of everything you do in life. If you make either one your Master, you will be done for. Do or create something in life because you LOVE IT AND ARE PROUD OF IT, and everything else will fall into place.

Think about it: If you win the lottery tomorrow, you will have to never work in your life again and will have the hottest girlfriend. You are a millionaire, BUT if you continue to stay at home on Friday nights playing video games and watching porn and being introverted, what happiness will that bring you and how long do you think she will stick around? Plus, if you can't TAKE CARE OF HER before you win the lottery, what are you going to do when the money runs out? Hope to win again?

You have to be SO GOOD that if the country is in DEPRESSION, she isn't worried because she knows you can take care of her through your DRIVE and AMBITION, and not hoping to hit 6 numbers out of 49.
 

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There is a movie called Lottery Ticket that talks about this kind of matter.

If I won the Mega Millions/ Powerball, I wouldn't tell anybody about it. I already know, like you said OP, your status would go way up.
 

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DonJuan11 said:
Guys get confused about this. They think money / nice car and / or material possessions will solve most or if not all their problems with women.

When women say "they want a rich guy", they DON'T MEAN "I want a guy who has just won the lottery or a guy who just got a large inheritance from an uncle who has passed away". Ideally they want a guy who has AMBITION, who has DRIVE, who has POWER, who can TAKE CARE OF THEM when they need. If you do something with PASSION and LOVE and it gives back to people, the money will come, along with the women.

Money and girls are BYPRODUCTS of everything you do in life. If you make either one your Master, you will be done for. Do or create something in life because you LOVE IT AND ARE PROUD OF IT, and everything else will fall into place.

Think about it: If you win the lottery tomorrow, you will have to never work in your life again and will have the hottest girlfriend. You are a millionaire, BUT if you continue to stay at home on Friday nights playing video games and watching porn and being introverted, what happiness will that bring you and how long do you think she will stick around? Plus, if you can't TAKE CARE OF HER before you win the lottery, what are you going to do when the money runs out? Hope to win again?

You have to be SO GOOD that if the country is in DEPRESSION, she isn't worried because she knows you can take care of her through your DRIVE and AMBITION, and not hoping to hit 6 numbers out of 49.
Amen.
 

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This is the first thing (and Fight Club) I remembered when I read the post by DonJuan11

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYYh8olZI7Y&feature=related

Me personally, I would invest the shi't out of the money before I even consider any luxuries. I am happy how I am now so I really wouldn't change anything aside from maybe getting my own place.
 

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I'd pay off some debts, fix up my car, and get a nice place... maybe a few decent sport coats too.

The large majority goes into a business venture and investments.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pay off my house and land,maybe buy some more land. Invest the rest in good quality dividend paying stocks and live off the income. Only if it wasn't enough would I keep my Dental office open[but all my stuff would be in limited liabliity partnerships or corporations that culdn't get sued for a dental issue][if there's a dollar bill between the denture and you,they never fit]
 

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Agree with Warrior. I WOULD NOT TELL ANYONE! Just finish paying off the house which is the only debt I have and invest the remainder. Personally, I would not change anything else in my life. Well, maybe get my dogs air conditioned dog houses.
 

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Pay off my house, buy a condo downtown (closer to work), pay off all of my debt and carry on as normal.

I would absolutely tell no one (maybe only my immediate family; only after being sworn to secrecy) and just keep living my life normally.

After reading omega05's post, I felt I should emphasize this. Sh!t, I already have problems with gold-diggers thinking I have money (hey, I like to dress well) there's no fvcking way I'm gonna be shouting to the wind "Hey, look at me! I have tons of money!"

I'm trying to find me a good one here!
 

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First thing I'd do: two chicks at the same time.
 

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I think the original point was how getting a large amount of money would change you in women's eyes, not what would you do with a million dollars
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Naughty Ninja said:
Of course your "status" would go up in MANY womens eyes. Mo' Money. Mo' Problems. All the women who "rejected" you in the past would most likely 'change their minds' yet try to get knocked up or AFC you into "treating them like a princess" if they didn't try to sue you like they do with every millionaire.

How do you feel winning a huge amount of money would change you in relating to women if at all? And do you think the advice you've been given on sosuave would be helpful or would you run rampant and forget it?
I'd travel and have a good time banging foreign women along the way. With money like that your confidence would go up, thus attracting more women. The hard part would be not getting involved with gold diggers.
 

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I'd travel and have a good time banging foreign women along the way. With money like that your confidence would go up, thus attracting more women. The hard part would be not getting involved with gold diggers.
gold diggers amongst women and guys. Fact is you'd lose some friendships, and others would be there just to get their taste. its human nature.

I make a bold prediction and contend I would be no happier one year from now even if I won the lotto. my plans would be to travel and try and keep it somewhat secretive from everyone, but eventually all of that would end. Would some things be easier? you bet. Would own my own place and probably even start up a nightclub or something just to stay busy. It would be an interesting life, but I don't think my overall happiness would change much. Getting laid more than I am now certainly wouldn't be a bad thing, but even that would get boring.
 

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Me. I'd first get a good accountant and lawyer. Then invest. Then travel more. I wouldn't tell anyone either.

I don't go on Facebook much at all if once a month. Only 100 friends. But I would definately take my facebook down. Delete everything and everyone before they found out and started posting or getting in contact. Anyone that I'd keep in touch with already has my number and only a few calls I'd answer and maybe not even that. I'd speak to them face to face. Don't need calls recorded or who knows calling from someone else's number.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
How do you feel winning a huge amount of money would change you in relating to women if at all? And do you think the advice you've been given on sosuave would be helpful or would you run rampant and forget it?
Not at all.

I wouldn't exude more confidence, I'd just have an ace-in-the-hole that would be unknown to women. I know I am saying this now but I wouldn't flaunt it, nor would I be trying to buy expensive dinners for women. I wouldn't try to be Tony Stark or Bill Gates even.

I would just keep it to myself.

I don't see a reason to forget the SoSuave advice.
I believe that my experiences in life in addition to the excellent information provided in the DJ Bible and the SoSuave forums have built a foundation for me to handle that sort of situation even better than I might have done 5 years ago.

As a matter of fact, knowing that I had all that money readily available to me I would use that knowledge to my advantage. Anything that can give you an favorable outcome in the battlefield is always a welcome advantage but it's best to NOT advertise said advantage or else you lose the element of surprise.
 

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I would definitely try to keep it secret.
The best thing about being financially independent like that from a gaming standpoint is that you wouldn't have to work. You could spend all day (and all your energy) practicing pickup, if you so desired.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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