"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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if you were to say, in just one sentence, what being a DJ is all about

Maverick001

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Being a DJ means exercising discipline of your masculine power and strength allowing you to move through life in a skilled, confident and purposeful way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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its maning up ( with confidence to your own responsibilites and your own actions without needing some cheese to go with your whine.)
 

ShizamDaMan

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Being true to yourself, and not giving a f*ck what anyone else thinks about it.

To sum it up in one word: manliness.
 
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