"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you were given 10 mins or less

Maximummax

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What kind of game you will run on a chick?
Assume this Chance comes to you only once. would like to know some answers from Expereinced DJ's.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Uhhh, Speed Seduction? :)

Anyway, 10 minutes is a short while so you have to escalate quickly, mostly through nonverbal interaction. Lots of eye contact, lots of kino, you need to cause a physical reaction inside of her, get those "love chemicals" rushing through her body.

Basically, do what RSD's Tyler Durden does in his videos. Of course that'll be harder if you're not meeting her during nightlife, such behavior may come off as too agressive to her. But you have to implement some type of similar approach as Tyler's to whatever circumstances you're meeting her under.

Do you have more info about the circumstances?
 

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Introduce myself. Ask her name. Then:

Lefty: You seem pretty attached to that phone there

HB: why is that

Lefty: Because, you (haven't put the thing down, keep staring at it, keep using it, whatever)... You know they got 12 step programs for people like you to be cured of addiction

Hb: haha very funny wise guy

Lefty: I know.So how about you give me the number to that thing so I can text or call you before u are cured

Hb: 309-555-0000

Lefty: All right thanks. I need to get going now to go save the rest of the world
 

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10 minutes or less to do what?

Get her number? If you need 10 minutes to get her number, you're probably doing it wrong.

Get her in bed? Now that's a challenge.

Maximummax said:
What kind of game you will run on a chick?
The game called walking up to her and doing whatever comes to mind.

Maximummax said:
Assume this Chance comes to you only once
This should be irrelevant. If you care that this is your "only chance", you already have a problem.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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