"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you want to leave a message use these tips!

Did she call you back after using these?

  • Oh ya!

    Votes: 5 71.4%
  • Nope

    Votes: 2 28.6%

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Elimidate

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SHORT MESSAGE TIPS THAT ALWAYS WORK FOR ME!


1) Decide (BEFORE YOU DIAL!!) what the purpose of your message is!

Do you want her to call you back? If so, why should she?

All to often its easy to leave a message without a point or just to

say "HI it's AFC.... I'm bored call me!"



2) Don't always call from home.

You're busy and on the move; not sitting at home looking forward

to a lengthy conversation about the meaning of life! :)

Even better, leave her a message so that she can hear some

background noise that's makes her wonder where the you are

and who you're with - ie: downtown traffic,

noise from a bar, at the zoo while a tiger is roaring in the

background lol...well, you get the point :)


3) Keep it short!

"Hey XXX, it's Elimidate. I have a surprise for you, call me!"


4) Avoid saying "Hi, it's ME!"

Save this move until you're married and read tip # 6 about a persons name!



5) Smile when you talk - it shows that you're a happy upbeat person and it will definitley be heard in your voice




6) Keep it light and fun and unpredictable!

Whatever her name is, start off by saying it 3 times while smiling - "Julie, Julie, Julie!" a persons name is the most important word to them in any language- Napolian Hill



7) Stay unavailable at times -

blah blah blah......actually, you won't be able to get a hold of me tonight...call me tomorrow.

This assumes that you know she wants to call you back and it works wonders..try it!



8) Refer to something you talked about in the past!

"Hey, it's Elimidate..Guess what? lol I remember...the name... of that song we where trying to think of last night! Beat you to it! LOL hang up.



9) Never end the message by saying "Thanks"

This is almost as bad as saying "thanks" after a kiss!


10) Press the # sign and listen to the message if TIPS 1-9 don't come naturally yet.

If you mess up, stumble or say "um" etc etc..This will give you an idea of how you sound so that you can improve yourself.

In conclusion :

IF A GIRL HAS INTEREST IN YOU, SHE WILL SAVE YOUR MESSAGE AND WILL LISTEN TO IT MORE THAN ONCE!


SIMPLY GIVE HER SOMETHING TO REMEMBER YOU BY! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Elimidate

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Please keep in mind this is if you get her answering machine.

Not roomates etc.


One of the girls I'm DJing now, is an aspiring actor. So if I get her roomate I use a fak voice and tell her it's Steven Speilburg calling and play it out for jokes.

If your DJ's skills are up to par, she should be calling you a lot more than you call her.

For me, it's about 3 to 1.


Has anyone tried these tips out yet? I'm interested.
 

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Thanks. I was always the type to just call her up and ramble :(
or not even consider why she should call me back. I got a
number on Saturday so if I leave amessage, I will use these :)
 

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Elimidate:
I used one of your tips, with regards to
leaving messages -- the "surprise technique".
There is this woman from Texas whom I spoke
with in July 2002. Anyway, I had written to her
three times and left two messages on her machine.
Needless to say I didn't hear from her.
This past Thursday (Jan. 9, 2003), I left a mess-
age saying " I have a surprise for you". To my
utter amazement, she called me that evening.
She did however wanted to know what the sur-
prise was. I managed to come up with something
and give her a satisfactory answer.
This "surprise" technique is in ingenius.
What I would like to know is if this "surprise"
technique can be used indefinately on the same
woman or do I eventually have to use different
techniques on her.
Anyway, thanks for that very useful bit of advice.

HINDEMITH
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The "Surprise" tactic should be used sparingly to not over do it because if everything is a f*cking surprise then it will have no great effect.

For example,

I have a surpsie for you...she calls back...what the surpsie?.....That I called!!! LOL :D

I use it about once eveyone couple months on the same girl.

If you don't have an actual surprise use this around her birthday or an occasion or just make a good one up! Get her guessing and add excitment in her life!

Elimidate
 

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Originally posted by Elimidate

I have a surpsie for you...she calls back...what the surpsie?.....That I called!!! LOL :D

That is sweet man.

her: whats the suprise?

me: (after making her work for it) I've already given it you.

Her: huh?

me: the suprise was that I called you in the first place.
 
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