If you want to be ABOVE the "rules"...

[Krassus]

... make yourself believe that you already are!


"He exists in a world beyond your world. What we only fantasize - he does. He lives a life where nothing is beyond him. He takes what he wants, when he wants."

Swordfish. Worth seeing if only for this quote. One of the secrets to success in every area of life is contained within. Until you remove the self-created boundaries, the invisible chain you walk around with all day long, you will never reach the hights of success. Whenever you try to fly, it'll pull you back down, to crawl the rest on the ground. Destroy the boundaries. Set yourself free of the chain. Soar above society!


When you see a girl talking on her cell phone, believe that you're above the rules. You don't have to wait for the right moment and will approach her then and there!

When you see a girl who's at work, believe that you're above the rules. You don't have to wait until she gets off and will approach then and there!

When you see a girl with a guy, believe that you're you're above the rules. You don't have to wait until she's all alone and will approach then and there!

When you see a girl who won't even look in your direction, believe that you're above the rules. You don't have to wait until she notices you and will approach then and there.

When you see a girl who's a lot hotter than you, believe that you're above the rules. You don't have to be as hot as her to have her and will approach then and there.

THE NEW RULES. THE ONLY RULES.

1. WHEN YOU SEE A GIRL, YOU WILL APPROACH THEN AND THERE!
2. WHEN YOU SEE A GIRL, YOU WILL APPROACH THEN AND THERE!
3. WHEN YOU SEE A GIRL, YOU WILL APPROACH THEN AND THERE!

 

[Scrumtulescence]

1. WHEN YOU SEE A GIRL, YOU WILL APPROACH THEN AND THERE!

Even if she's obese, ugly, and 13 years old?

 

[Jay-X]

Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Even if she's obese, ugly, and 13 years old?

even more, if she's obese, ugly and 13 years old

 

[Krassus]

Common sense people, common sense! Only apply this to chicks you actually want

 

[Julian]

Hey krassus its funny you make this post.

The other week my friend and I were hanging out and i mentioned to him how cool it would be to be like travolta in swordfish... we were laughing because he has that whole euro hipster thing going on.

However, behind the laughter there was alot of truth being said. In the movie he lived without bounds and i havent realized till now, just by reading your post that i can also live without bounds.

 

[Bonhomme]

Shakes head sideways

No, no, no. Have you no social skills, grasshopper?

The best way to crash and burn is to rudely interrupt a gal when she's unlikely to welcome it. Better to act in a way that results in her wanting you.

In most cases, the thing to do is catch her eye, give her an easy, confident smile, and then, if she smiles back or otherwise posiritvely acknowledges you, approach her in a smooth, unhurried fashion.

There's a certain flow to seduction. Which is unique for each situation. Perhaps that's what you're really driving at. The better you go with the flow, the better your chances of making something of the meeting.

Better to approach one gal and end the evening making out with her (which will get others interested as well) than approach 50, crash & burn 50 times, and be the loser your unfortunate targets are joking about in the bathroom.

But still, your concept is good, though I disagree with the way it is framed. The only thing that needs to dictate what you do is the flow. So, in that sense, there are no rules.

 

[4afe]

Bonhomme:

I think I will have to dissagree with you . I dont see how sitting on your a$$ for half an hour waiting for some girl to finish her conv with another guy then waiting for your eyes to meet, will help you.

I just dont get this eye contact thing, I know its important when in a conv but why again is it needed to initiate a conversation? If I see some HB that I want to talk to, I do it even if she is reading, eating, talking to her friends,.... And yeah sometimes they get all upset over it but for the most part, they welcome the break in their daily routine. (I never approach when they are on the phone that never worked out for me )

My $0.02 worth

 

[comote]

You don't sit on your a$$ waiting. You go do your thing, when the time is right you make your move. If that means that you just won't get that particular girl, then so be it. I agree though that certain things can be interrupted but only under the right circumstances.

Honestly this post seems to me to say, be a rampaging bull, throw finesse out the window. This hurts your game if you don't move beyond this stage.

The best players will approach a woman when they are good and ready. The whole process should feel natural to both of you. The second you take something too quick (or too slow) and out of the flow is the second that she is uninterested.

If you are so impatient that you have to be rude then that means you have put getting a woman to high on your priorities list.

 

[Krassus]

Re: Shakes head sideways

Originally posted by Bonhomme
The best way to crash and burn is to rudely interrupt a gal when she's unlikely to welcome it. Better to act in a way that results in her wanting you.

Who said anything about rudely interrupting? Just say "excuse me, i'm sorry to interrupt, but i just wanted to take a minute to get to know you. do you think you could call them back? " Works for me.

 

[Bonhomme]

exactly, comote

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[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by comote
You don't sit on your a$$ waiting. You go do your thing, when the time is right you make your move. If that means that you just won't get that particular girl, then so be it. I agree though that certain things can be interrupted but only under the right circumstances.

Honestly this post seems to me to say, be a rampaging bull, throw finesse out the window. This hurts your game if you don't move beyond this stage.

The best players will approach a woman when they are good and ready. The whole process should feel natural to both of you. The second you take something too quick (or too slow) and out of the flow is the second that she is uninterested.

If you are so impatient that you have to be rude then that means you have put getting a woman to high on your priorities list.

If you know common rules of politeness waiting serves no purpose. He didnt say walk over to her and be rude. Those are two different things, approaching and what you say when you approach. A woman doesn't know if you were waiting 15 secs or 15 minutes to approach her. She dont know if you were waiting on eye contact or not. Most of the things going on in your head are in your head only. If you see it you go get it. If I females is attracted too you, short of being blatently rude, the only thing she cares about is if you approached her. This post isnt for everyone because everyone isnt there yet.

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by Royal Elite
If you know common rules of politeness waiting serves no purpose. He didnt say walk over to her and be rude. Those are two different things, approaching and what you say when you approach. A woman doesn't know if you were waiting 15 secs or 15 minutes to approach her. She dont know if you were waiting on eye contact or not. Most of the things going on in your head are in your head only. If you see it you go get it. If I females is attracted too you, short of being blatently rude, the only thing she cares about is if you approached her. This post isnt for everyone because everyone isnt there yet.

What he said

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by Krassus
What he said

You crazy man LOL

 

[Enzo]

This thread is deep. I have always waited for "the right time", but this thread blows that ish out of the water. Thanks for posting.

 

[Krassus]

Was at the mall today and saw a chick with her boyfriend. "Excuse me, i wanted to ask you something. Are you a couple or just friends?" Then after a 4-second pause, she goes "He's my boyfriend." I gave him the thumbs up and said "Good catch, man!" I love doing that. I've gotten so used to opening chicks with guys! It's now easier for me than opening chicks with other chicks, cuz i run into chicks with guys so much more often.

 

[-HPNOTIQ-]

Good tip..

It is true, however, that many guys here have a style and do what works for them. Maybe they are the cool, quiet confident type that likes to wait it out before staking the kill. Or maybe they like the shotgun approach hitting on every woman in the room.

The moral is to not wait around sitting with your thumbs up your butt hoping for the perfect moment, second, or opportunity to happen. I've seen many self professed players/DJs go to nightclubs and don't approach because they are waiting for the "Perfect Moment". They wait so long that the target is laughing it up with another fella. So their attitude is "oh well" her loss. It just MAYBE her loss. But, fellas like this have this attitude over and over again. The result = no chicks. So who's loss is it?

Kinda reminds me of the 3 second nightlcub rule.

Opportunity usually lasts a split second...regret can lurk with you for a lifetime.

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
Good tip..

It is true, however, that many guys here have a style and do what works for them. Maybe they are the cool, quiet confident type that likes to wait it out before staking the kill. Or maybe they like the shotgun approach hitting on every woman in the room.

The moral is to not wait around sitting with your thumbs up your butt hoping for the perfect moment, second, or opportunity to happen. I've seen many self professed players/DJs go to nightclubs and don't approach because they are waiting for the "Perfect Moment". They wait so long that the target is laughing it up with another fella. So their attitude is "oh well" her loss. It just MAYBE her loss. But, fellas like this have this attitude over and over again. The result = no chicks. So who's loss is it?

Kinda reminds me of the 3 second nightlcub rule.

Opportunity usually lasts a split second...regret can lurk with you for a lifetime.

Yeah what he said

 

[tyciol]

Obese ugly 13 year olds no, they have to be 14+ to be legal (in Canada) or 16/17/18 depending on where in the US you are.

 

[thecraftylefty]

Good analogy with the "rules." Very easy to follow and grasp.

The only thing, which I think is implied once you attain this mindset, that should also be said is that once you see yourself above these "rules" is that they no longer even exist.

Once you can see past the facade of the so-called "rules" you will start making your own limits. And the best approach is to never limit yourself at all.



thecraftylefty

 

[Virtú]

At last, an excuse to skip all that boring talking and posturing we call seduction and go straight to some barely legal kino