"If you wanna break up with me then do it''

[jadeona13]

As you guys know from my other posts..me and my Gf are in a huge fight..

She called me on the phone before and i said, "We need to talk, in person, later''

and she said, "If you going to break up with me then do it now''

Why would she say that? Does she want to break up, jbut jsut wants me to do it? Keep in mind, she said that many times before.

 

[KontrollerX]

How did you react when she said this in past times?

 

[MotownMack]

Does she want to break up, jbut jsut wants me to do it?

Not necessarily. That's like telling her "Hey, we need to talk." Of course she is going to assume the worst. It's like getting called into your supervisors office at 10 minutes to five.

The fact that she has said it before makes me think the opposite actually-that she's insecure and worried about you leaving her.

Just address what needs to be talked with her ASAP and end this drama.

 

[jadeona13]

now shes saying...i love you, i hope you feel the same

so confusing

 

[Purple-Haze]

now shes saying...i love you, i hope you feel the same

so confusing

I agree with Motown. You told her you needed "to talk"...so of course she is going to think the worst (it's only natural).

Her telling you that she loves you is her way to find out what this talk is all about. Put her out of her misery and tell her what it is now. OR, if you want to keep her on her toes, tell her whenever you plan to.

jadeona, isn't this the same girl that was a former "player" and the one who has a close R with a guy?

 

[DonJuan11]

As you guys know from my other posts..me and my Gf are in a huge fight..

She called me on the phone before and i said, "We need to talk, in person, later''

Why on earth would you say that to her? I never understand guys who "break up" with women like that. IMHO, if you want to break up with her, start ignoring her and her calls and go pick up on other girls. There is no reason for to cut off all contact with her, let her do it. Let her throw her ego out there for you. Let her say "I think you are too busy loving other girls so I don't think we can continue."

IMHO, when guys break up with girls like that is like going to a car dealership and saying "Hey, you know that Porsche you have for sell? Well I just like to tell you I can't buy it."

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Girl what we do, and where we do, the things we do, are just between me and you.

 

[3countriesPlan]

this thread coupled with your othes on her.. makes it easy to know whats up. she doesnt like you that much anymore and is more than willing to part with you.

her I love you line is purely for her own sick purposes of mind fvcking you which is probably the only type of fvcking you will ever get from her again.

ITS OVER- tell her " Ok we're over."

Then happily go on with your life after a short period of mourning and scarfing down doritos while you play warcraft or whatever you do when u sad.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Tell her in a calm tone that you do not want to see her again. Do this in person so that it hurts the both of you. Finality will ultimately bring closure. If you do it on the phone it removes any tangible effect and renders your statement nil.

Delete this broad from your phones, get rid of every letter, text message, pair of used underwear (ok, maybe keep one or two for nostagia's sake ), and delete every email and facebook/myspace link you have to her.

If she's playing the Red light/Green light game with you you'll lose. She's a pro at it. You're not.

 

[young_gun]

When a woman is pissed off, she can be the most uncontrollable, irrational, un-cooperative person you could ever imagine. Wait a little while to talk to her, and remember to keep your cool, no matter what she says to you. Don't yell at her, and don't play the blame game with her (you did this, you did that). This will only make things worse.

Don't let some stupid fight be the end of a good thing.