"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cfdagola

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As a man that hurts.

And how is he pathetic. She had a double life and he loved her. The dude's not the CIA there's no way to track down holes in her story especially if she lives on another continent.
 

vinkoch

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I'm a pretty empathetic guy but I have no sympathy for this guy. He's way too old for her, and he should've known better. Young Jamaican girl wants to marry old white dude and live happily ever after? c'Mon...
 

VladPatton

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Poor bastard wanted to get down with some chocolate love but got fled on. Maybe when she realized what his living conditions were she said "fück this place". Jamaica to Scotland is quite a change.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dutchmaster

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Damn. I feel bad for Mr Gannon. The truly good-intentioned, genuine guys are always the ones who get sh!t on.

A girl I was recently seeing, before our first date, said to me on the phone... "you can buy me a dress for our date." She waited for an answer and when I said No, she got a little....Idk...different.

Us guys need to start looking more avidly for these clues about a woman's true intentions.
Lol yeah, I was dating a girl who wanted me to put her up as my Woman Crush Wenedsday on Instagram after dating her for 2 weeks :crackup: :crackup:

I simply texted back the shot of her a55 she sent me and said would that work? She quickly got over it haha.

But it was a sign, this chick was the most spoiled brat psycho princess I ever dated. Damn that pu55y was good though, and she was hotter than a muh.
 

MtnMan

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lol, i probably have met this girl. She is from treasure beach jamaica. Its a TINY town and I have spend a fair amount of time there. Jamaicans know how to hustle the whities. This dude got the hustle, dont feel one bit bad for him.
 

sylvester the cat

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Not only did he allow himself to get mugged off by a 24 yr old girl but he then went and broadcast his folly to the whole world via a national newspaper.

Smh.
 

Starfvcks 64

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"I had my happiness all laid out."
His problem was that his happiness was dependent on a woman. That will always lead to unhappiness.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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