"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If you overanalyze, think about the past...distort time for the better...

DjDreamer

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There is life changing power within everyone.

Everyone has the ability to create a good or bad mood just by thinking "what if".

Many people don't use "what if" to create a better future...that's because they fail to recreate their past...

Every now and again a reader on this board gets a moment of insight. The reader realizes what's needed to succeed with women and he wonders how his life would have been if he knew DJism when he was younger.

Sometimes a reader gets wrapped up with obtaining good results that he's reluctant to approach women due to thinking about the possibility of obtaining non-perfection

The two readers I just explained both utilized the powerful life changing technique of "what if". Using the technique of "what if" is the closest thing you can come to having a groundhogs day or 50 first date experience.

Now let me demonstrate the power of "what if"....

A. Think about a time you approached an attractive woman but you failed to have a succesful relationship with her. Visualise it.

B. Think about kissing an actress, singer or supermodel. Visualise it.

Now A is a memory and B is a fantasy.

Now what I want you to do is merge A and B...create a memtasy...

C. Think about "what if" you knew about Djism when you was younger.

If you want super confidence, practise C on a daily basis...memtasize...with your past memories, show no AFC behaviour, do keno, kill the desperation...distort time for the better...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJ_Dork

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I totally agree with this statement. Would also like to add that if you mess up once, the chick will give you 1-2 more chances and then it's over.
 
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