If You Let Her Lead, She Will Lead You To The End Of The Relationship!

[soulforge]

Some solid advice here.. I think most of us have made this mistake.. Tight game & solid frame at the beginning of the relationship, which is what got her all wet for you..

Then year or two down the line we get soft & overly confident thinking, that you have her locked down & we start getting soft.

You know how things go from that point onwards!

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Fresh and fit are low key turning in to simp channel. They want men to be a Tyler Perry movie hero now to appeal to women.

 

[Robert28]

I don’t mind leading but what I get tired of doing is leading a grown ass child around by the nose 24/7.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

I don’t mind leading but what I get tired of doing is leading a grown ass child around by the nose 24/7.

preachhh, planning a dinner or drink date is one thing, eventually these children want dates with 3 sections and you have to guess and make 100% of it, don’t you dare ask her what she wants to do because that’s not confident!!

and let’s not forget the money and time wasted on this date to lead a child.

 

[Robert28]

preachhh, planning a dinner or drink date is one thing, eventually these children want dates with 3 sections and you have to guess and make 100% of it, don’t you dare ask her what she wants to do because that’s not confident!!

and let’s not forget the money and time wasted on this date to lead a child.

Women want you to lead all the time until it comes to the wedding, then THEY get to lead and do all the choosing and planning lol

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Women want you to lead all the time until it comes to the wedding, then THEY get to lead and do all the choosing and planning lol

Exactly, taking the lead is code for entertaining her not being a masculine man. Try taking the lead when it comes to a wedding and giving her a cheap minimalist plan upfront and tell me how that goes?!

 

[HaleyBaron]

Exactly, taking the lead is code for entertaining her not being a masculine man. Try taking the lead when it comes to a wedding and giving her a cheap minimalist plan upfront and tell me how that goes?!

I won't ever know cause Im not getting married in a female-centered state.

 

[TheProspect]

I don’t mind leading but what I get tired of doing is leading a grown ass child around by the nose 24/7.

What do you mean leading by the nose 24/7?

I think you’re confusing natural masculine leadership with dating dependent low quality women incapable of making their own decisions.

Date mature and self-sufficient women.

Exactly, taking the lead is code for entertaining her not being a masculine man. Try taking the lead when it comes to a wedding and giving her a cheap minimalist plan upfront and tell me how that goes?!

Leadership is more nuanced than your cheap interpretation of it.

Leading doesn’t always necessarily mean making every decision. On the contrary, good leadership is also knowing when to allow others to make decisions (and why it’s important). Don’t confuse leadership with being a tyrannical dictator when it comes to decision-making.

@Jake_Gyllenhaal69 @Robert28,

Y’all should raise your standards because constantly meeting, dating, & entertaining “children” is a reflection only on yourselves and the quality of women you can pull/attract, not women universally.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Date mature and self-sufficient women.

Unfortunately they are all hiding somewhere.....

 

[Robert28]

Unfortunately they are all hiding somewhere.....

They’re a very small minority. Are they out there? Yeah. But so is Bigfoot. He’s out there somewhere too.lol

 

[Robert28]

Dude my wifes ring was less then 300$ she is still around. For now haha

What year did you marry her?

 

[TheProspect]

Unfortunately they are all hiding somewhere.....

Granted, mature women are far less common then immature & needy women (“childish women”). I don’t think anyone would dispute that.

That being said, there’s a difference between a immature low quality woman who acts childish, and a woman who displays the expected irrational emotional volatility that comes along with the everchanging chaotic nature of the feminine…

You are not going to meet a woman who is not the latter — because all women are like that.

Dating the former, however, is a choice and reflection of ones own standards & options.