Capodeciña
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Many of my online profiles have pictures of me kiss closing random girls, Frequently get asked if its my Girlfriend, not sure how to respond to this. Any suggestions?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
If you have "Online" Pictures of you Kiss Closing Random Girl
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
I like to keep my stuff a little more private than that, but occasionally some random facebook picture catches up with me...but if I were you and I were in your situation....
Girl: "I see pictures of you kissing random girls. Which is your g/f?"
You: "None of 'em..."
Girl: "..."
You: "..."
I love doing that sh**. Simple answers. No explanation. Just let them walk away thinking you're a pimp. Pimps don't need to explain themselves...their actions will do that talking. Of course I say these kinds of things with a smile on my face....not all serious and cold. But you get the idea.
Girl: "I see pictures of you kissing random girls. Which is your g/f?"
You: "None of 'em..."
Girl: "..."
You: "..."
I love doing that sh**. Simple answers. No explanation. Just let them walk away thinking you're a pimp. Pimps don't need to explain themselves...their actions will do that talking. Of course I say these kinds of things with a smile on my face....not all serious and cold. But you get the idea.
Social Proof-you want to be viewed as a ladies man, makes you desireable. Ever see Kid Rok..........he aint no super model but his posters all have hot chics hanging all over him. Look at any of those thug lovin hoes or back in the day gangsta lovin playas........
Trust me pics like these BOOST your market value, it's all about perception. You basically got a few options;
1) attach word balloons or tag the pics with captions like "who's your daddy, future ex, not my sister, etc"
2) answer inquiries like the previous poster said "NONE OF THEM" or they are just friends I met that night, always room fo one more, etc.
Nothing wrong with being a Mack Daddy, hiding your pics is just a waste, share to those who dream about being a PUA one day.
Trust me pics like these BOOST your market value, it's all about perception. You basically got a few options;
1) attach word balloons or tag the pics with captions like "who's your daddy, future ex, not my sister, etc"
2) answer inquiries like the previous poster said "NONE OF THEM" or they are just friends I met that night, always room fo one more, etc.
Nothing wrong with being a Mack Daddy, hiding your pics is just a waste, share to those who dream about being a PUA one day.
jnice48146
Don Juan
I just changed my profile pics to one of me getting kissed on the cheek by two girls, and WOW, what a reaction! My ex LTR (oneitis) is jealous and up in arms talkin' MAD SHYT. I've had increased interest in girls that I'VE LJBF'ed (i.e. them calling/ texting/ chatting me constantly), not to mention the increased effort and downright aggression my FB used in bed after she saw the pic! All that from a "stereo" peck on the cheek! I wonder how it would be if it was a real kiss, or more than 2 girls??????????
Just a Shot Away
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Or better yet, two girls doing the ol' double harmonica on your cock with the appropriate blurring to make it FB friendly.jnice48146 said:
I'd say this is a technique for advanced DJ's. Posting pics like this invites all sorts of shit tests, assumptions, and personality expectations...which means that a failure in any of these areas leaves you dead in the water and an immediate sapping in any IL.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.