"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you have kids please read

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I, your GF, BF, nor anyone else in the world gives a **** how smart your 5 year old is. We aren't mean..we just don't care.

You will never win the Nobel prize of parenting for what your 5 year old can do.

You are supposed to teach your child to read, to understand shapes and sizes.

Come back to me when he/she reaches puberty and we might can talk. That's when the fruits of parenting really show. Is your child a lazy fvck who jacks off and smokes pot? but he can READ!!!!:D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nothing gets to me more.


even my little sister.. my mom will tell me "bri read my the out of her book the other day".. I"m like mom....she's 7. I hope she can read. She can work a remote control better than I... I hope she can read.

again, check in with me when she gets 15 and again when she is 19 and we can talk.
 

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Same goes for bumper stickers saying their child is in the honor roll. It really funny to me here in Arkansas, because if your child isn't on the honor roll in AR, then you have one really dumb child!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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backbreaker said:
nothing gets to me more.


even my little sister.. my mom will tell me "bri read my the out of her book the other day".. I"m like mom....she's 7. I hope she can read. She can work a remote control better than I... I hope she can read.

again, check in with me when she gets 15 and again when she is 19 and we can talk.
backbreaker you pedaphile pervert!!! :rock: j/k
 

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azanon said:
Same goes for bumper stickers saying their child is in the honor roll. It really funny to me here in Arkansas, because if your child isn't on the honor roll in AR, then you have one really dumb child!
i like the ones that say ...
"my child beat up your honor roll student"
 
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